Have you had a divorce?

@rj4pau (215)
Malaysia
October 17, 2009 2:33pm CST
Have you had a divorce or had any experience surrounding a divorce crisis? It seems that the divorce rate is increasing as couples tend to cut short the problem of their so-called misunderstanding. But some managed to avoid it and try to save the marriage for the sake of the children who would be effected the most. But does it worth it to suffer years of disagreement? Please give some tip or opinion on this as I had met few friends of mine who actually been divorced due to incompatible but late be good friends even after both remarried to another person.
3 responses
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
5 Nov 09
I got married to an Australian man and we had a baby son. I got divorced six years later. He and I live thousands of miles away from each other. I am so lucky that I don't ever have to see him again. My son doesn't mind not having a father around. I know that it is more difficult for a divorced couple that live in the same town. They still have to see if other and get on for the sake of their children.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
27 Oct 09
I've been divorced but I did try to work with my ex on his problems before I finally kicked him out. He had two unacceptable problems. He could not keep a job to save his life and he threw things...and broke them...when he lost his temper. I tried to get him to go to counseling but he wouldn't so, finally, I told him that he was going to have to go until her got some help. That was well over 20 years ago. He never got help but he did see his kids...if I drove them over to their grandparents' house where he lived for years. Sometimes it's better for the children if the parents separate. My ex set a very bad example for them.
@jasmen82 (63)
• Singapore
18 Oct 09
Hi, I just got married. Of course dun hope to go to the point to divorce. I feel that marriage is scared. And we make our vow upon to god. So how can we break the vow so easily. It so sad for couple to marry and divorce. Because i feel that they dun treat their marriage seriously enough