hey guys! BEAUTY OR BRAINS?

@mafi0831 (108)
Philippines
October 17, 2009 11:11pm CST
For me beauty is nothing if you dont have the brains. If you are not quite beautiful but you are intelligent, you can use your head to be attractive. you can impress the guy by being smart. Beauty can be faded away but the brains, you will have till the end of time. Guy should look for beauty and brains. what a lucky guy but be careful she might intimidate you. you should be smart also. Dont let her do the talking when you are with a couple of friends.she can outwit you.
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27 responses
• United States
19 Oct 09
I have to say brains, simply because you can be the most physically beautiful person in the world, but if you are stupid as well then you are less attractive. Everyone has flaws, but the smarter you are and the more personality you have will cover those flaws easily.
@DrRac0 (126)
• United States
19 Oct 09
id preffer brains, but if u can have both, even better
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• Philippines
18 Oct 09
Yup, that true beauty is useless if the person is dumb as both are important for me having brains and beauty at the same time is very important. Or not totally brainy but at least smart having a lot of common sense. Since it would be nice to talk to a beautiful person with a beautiful mind as a person who have this sense of quality is good to in balancing his emotional tendency and have the ability to manage her time, accomplish her plans and could do live well independently without asking from others sugestion as she could decide on her own.
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@alex_raju (173)
• India
18 Oct 09
This is an interesting question.The truth is i don't know the answer.I prefer girls by personality and personality means both beauty and brain.The funny thing is the definition of beauty is different for everyone.
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@ravich (242)
• India
18 Oct 09
hi friend i agree you most of what you have said is correct...but there are chances where beauty can dominate mind.....you are only thinking about the beauty of a woman..the beauty of nature can dominate your mind....it makes you have a peaceful mind.. you generally get hesitated when you are at the odd place...in the same way beautiful person can also create impression ..if you believe in the concept of first impression is the best impression... then only a beautiful person will have the first impression....and also that...all have a same smart piece of mind and only is that their application differs..in a beauty contest only the girl who is beautiful will be having the preferance
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• United States
18 Oct 09
Yeah brains before beauty is a Definite, who wants a good looking girl who's as dumb as a rock -__-..I doubt the relationship will last that long anyways if u can't even talk with the other person..that's y I look for girls that R both good looking and smart but not too smart..I wouldn't want to be outsmarted by her haha
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• Philippines
18 Oct 09
Im a guy but I can say that it is not just for the guys to go look for beauty and brain on girls, it should be plain and straight. Girls want to have guys that have the brain and the looks.
@Archie0 (5636)
18 Oct 09
I know what you mean, in life, we can only give our best to 1 thing, even if someone is able to multi-task... at the end, they only can gave their best to 1 thing.. You can be beautiful and be full of personality, but you have to put personality first in your life, and beauty second. Normally someone who has a great personality, is someone who put personality first, and beauty second... that means they don't worry too much about beauty, they put their friends, family etc... first
@BlueGoblin (1829)
• United States
18 Oct 09
I would want a woman that shares the same values and beliefs as me. I think that is most important. I know a lot of couples differ in that regard. But I would find it very difficult to stay with a woman like that, especially if she was very opinionated. I had a girlfriend like that and we went our separate ways. We just couldn't agree on anything. She was very pretty and intelligent but it meant nothing in the end. We just weren't compatible.
@mafi0831 (108)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
got your point there. It is really hard to be with somebody if you have differences. thanks for the response.
@checkmail (2039)
• India
18 Oct 09
Hello mafia0831 this is checkmail and i prefer both of it, and don't wana bargain in it.Beauty presents the fragnance and Brain presents the talent.And i think both are essential for us, and god also haven't made so much of indiscription in making such humans.So we can assume as its Beauty and Brains and not Beaty or Brains.
@mafi0831 (108)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
yeah, i respect your opinion but it is hard to look for both. Well, may you find both. thanks
@stephon8 (300)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
I prefer beauty, it is easy to manipulate them and they are way fun to talk too. I think that pretty girls are much more trustworthy than smart girls. Based on my experience the prettier the girl the less she might cheat. It's hard to trust smart girls cause they are smart, its hard to read them if they are cheating or not.
@stephon8 (300)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
No it is not okay if my girl talk nonsense. Ofcourse i like someone who can conversate very well but there are smart girls who talk nonsense too. Some only knows about school stuff and politics but when it comes to topic about life they don't know nothing.
@mafi0831 (108)
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
oh nice response. Is it okay if your girl talk nonsense? just asking.Thanks for the response. You are still correct,smart girl sometimes bores guys. have a nice day.
@dipak06 (913)
• India
18 Oct 09
if anyone is beautiful then he/she attract the people at least for the first moment...it is universal truth and nobody can deny it...if you meet with the person then you realize he/she will have talent or not..of course brain or smartness is also an important matter..if it will have then this is additional talent...i am not saying that looking beautiful is mandatory ..beauty is the outer side characteristic but smartness and talent are inner characteristics and you have to find these inner characteristics in anyone....try to work hard...lol
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• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Right! That's right. If I were a guy then I'm going to have a girlfriend I would rather choose to have a brainy girlfriend than a pretty one without a common sense. Guys should not look just on the beauty of that girl but also her common sense and way of dealing with other people in a smart way. Its a "turn-off" if a girl is only pretty and not brainy.
@feodda (579)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
If I were to choose I rather want a guy that has Brain. I love to interact and question, I really talk a lot. I like a guy that is Smart. It really impresses me, especially explaining things in a detail that would really makes you understand things. I want to share my side and I want to learn from his side too. Its a two way of learning process. It is really true that beauty can be faded in time. But the knowledge cannot be taken from you, unless you will have a Dementia or Memory loss. And that's another topic to discuss.
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@lyanne (60)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
You have a point here, beauty is what your eyes can only see and adore (physically) ; however brains defines who you really are...=)
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• United States
19 Oct 09
I think Brains are Hot I am Thankful that My Husband is Super Smart, and Super Hot I am Happy To Have Him.. He is Sweet and treats me Great too I am Thankful to have finally found the Greatest of all Worlds
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
19 Oct 09
Brains anytime for me. Nothing beats a totally smart brain. Intellectual people are sometimes cool to have around; there can be so many great things that can be shared with on thoughts and all..
@wahmivy (776)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
Yeah, I don't see why one can't go without the other. Beauty is also relative. We have such varying tastes. I think personality is so much more important than either of these two traits anyway.
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
If I were to choose between the beauty and brains, I will choose in between for me to have both. It is fine with me being a good looking but not beautiful and partly smart. This will give me a contented life for having partly both brains and beauty.
19 Oct 09
I am a girl, not a guy. But to answer the question, I prefer a guy with brains. Beauty is totally physical. I prefer beauty inside. A person can be totally handsome but so dumb, and that's a bum. A guy can practically be handsome when he use his wits and confidence. That's what I like.
• United States
21 Oct 09
I want BOTH. Conversations are so very important, but it is also nice to have something nice to look at when having that conversation. I am not saying he has to be a hot hot hunk. I just want someone who is easy on the eyes and can have a smart, intelligent, open minded conversation.