hi, Mylot ladies, can you find out if your man is cheating on you?

India
October 21, 2009 1:23pm CST
There are certain symptoms that reveal the hard fact that your man is cheating on you. What are they? Can you find them out? In general both man and woman pretend to the other that he/she has no interest on others. So every man and woman has a lot of trust on the partner. Sometimes the trust is shaken completely. As you have unshaken trust on your partner you may not be able to find out the initial changes in him. My guess: he will not talk to you as much as he used to before. he may take more time to dress.he will try to look at his best. he may come late at night and will have a story every day for the delay. he wont be able to make eye contacts with you when he just goes out and just comes back. noticeable changes in his tastes and routine .....
4 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
Hello my dear brother, It is called "woman's intuition" And i rely on that my dear brother. There are men/women who can hide their cheatings for they are very good with hiding it from their partners. But,just like i said,it's woman's intuition that i rely on. I knew very well when my man is cheating. he hide his mobile phone. he always stay outside house,like using the alibi..he is going out for a smoke(he never smoke inside house becoz i hate the smell of it)...but,he does is more often ,becoz.that is the only way he knows so he can call his girl without anyone to hear them(grrrr) he is always excited to go back to his destination(he is always working out of town,that is his job required him)unlike before that,if possible he doesn't want to go back to work and would like to stay with us a little longer. Ummm..there are many ways to detect someone who is cheating...it depends on how sharp is your ability to smell something fishy going on
• India
21 Oct 09
wow, it is a great response from you once again Jaiho. You seem to know a lot about love, relationship, cheating, intuition ...... I have missed many points especially the mobile phone matter. It is always better not to marry a sharp lady like you, hehehe- just kidding.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
hahaha...dear dear. Maybe becoz i have known my man from every small details...and with that,he can't hide anything from me. The only problem is...he is not good with lieing(lying). Whenever i confronted him...he easily give in...admitting his affairs (wish to hanged him upside down..grrrr)
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
22 Oct 09
Hi there, I think if my man is cheating on my, i will be able to feel it and find it out. Just like you said, he doesn't behave normal, so if you are careful enough, you can find his is trying to hide something. I don't know what other woman will do, for me, if i found out once they he is cheating on me or having some special relationship with other woman, i will leave him immidately!
• China
26 Oct 09
Thanks for the best respond!
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
I never had a relationship, but as i learned from my friends who have boyfriend and husband, they call it woman's instinct. They are feeling some changes on the way they treat them. Whe she is sharing story, him look around , find some thing that will interest them and look bored. When a man is always late in their meeting and he prioritize his job more than his lady, of course there are some instances that a man prioritize his work to earn, but when a woman started to hear rumors behind it, it will become dubious to her. There is no smoke when there is no fire. No secret keep hidden for long. it will come out in the open. My friend said we can feel it and it always happent that what we feel is right.
@Chipog (19)
• South Africa
21 Oct 09
It really depends with your partner. Some are really good at hiding their affairs and you will only know about the affair after their deaths. However others are easily noticeable right from the moment the get involved. There is no formula really to say how they will react but the most common known factor is a general change in their natural behaviour