Have you fall in love,yet afraid to admit it...

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
Philippines
October 21, 2009 11:59pm CST
Hello friends and dear mylotters, I remember one line of a song that goes like this "afraid for love to fade before it can come true " Did this ever happen to you dear friends and mylotters? What are the reasons why you feel afraid to admit it? Waiting for your response and comment...feel free to share your thoughts. Have a goo day always
8 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
hello jaiho... when i was younger, i am not afraid to fall in love but yes there are times that i am afraid to admit it...but its only because, i think its not yet the right time, he's not the right man, or maybe i am just afraid of my parents...hehe
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
hehe...actually there's really no problem with my parents, coz my mom is very understanding when it comes to things like this and she wants me to open up with her...but i think its just me who don't like telling to her things like that when i was in highschool! haha and that's why i don't have a bf way back high school! huh! i just have my 1st bf when i am already on my 2nd yr college & that man has become my husband... i do get attracted to other men way back, and i also tell it to my mom whenever someone shows interest on me...but sometimes another factor that holds me back is my religion...you know. (shhhhhh....)
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
uhmnn,yah,i do understand about it amiga.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Hello ckyera, Aha,afraid of parents huh (hmnnn...hehe) Yah,it's one reason,strict parents,or i should say...respecting parents and trying to be an obedient child. In my younger days,it's not that i am afraid of my parents,becoz,i tell them when someone wanted to court me,i ask permission from my parents if it is okay to recieve a suitor at home. The reason why i didn't had any bf is,i seen my friends crying for nonsense things,small petty quarrels,it irritates me really.It looks OA,i feel as if,young love is like a circus having fun for a week and then,feel dizzy and would like to throw up everything
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
hello jaiho, I was a freshman back then in college. i met this woman, she became my classmates, of course i went out with her as a friend, but after knowing that he has a boyfriend, i didn't pursue. and even when she broke up with her bf and gotten a crush on one of my classmates, i still didn't tell her, it wasn't worth saying anymore. besides, she's kinda bossy to me
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Hello Letran brother, Uhmn,,so you had fallen in love at young age then huh!!(hehe) I guess you had grown up now,and,maybe you are not afraid anymore to express your feeling to someone you admire most..is there any new love of your life now dear brother?..do i sounds intriguing you (hahaha)
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
oh my dear brother, see,this discussion is already 2 years old,and still you are afraid to love? my golly
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
No, i am a lot more afraid now than ever before because my life seems to be incomplete not to mention having a lot of excuses.
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@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Oct 09
i can't remember this thing happened to me in the past. and for now, i don't want to fall in love again with another.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Hello Neil, Hmnnn,so you mean,you are very much obvious to court and would surely utter your love to any woman you really have felt love before (hehehe)just kidding my brother. Well,i know about it,Filipino guys...sweet lover as they say
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
22 Oct 09
I think that fear must be for school kids. When you grow up and start liking a person things start to fall in place, I guess. Nice discussion, Didi.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Hello dear brother, Yup,precisely,fear is for school kids that's what i think of,but no,...even adult or matured person also had fear of admitting love or expressing love to someone. One reason is,family matters,or maybe...children of both sides. I am talking about two divorced people who had kids with previous marriages,...and that makes the situation a problem. So,they have to set aside their feelings... So much reason...i just hope..love will always prevail
• India
22 Oct 09
Ummm two divorces people...., never thought in that angle. Interesting thing that you mentioned. And yes, may love prevail always.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
22 Oct 09
nice question jaiho. i fell in love for more than seven times, but u know, i never hesitated to express my feelings. but now i am alone. hahaha.... perhaps i was not so skilled in expressing my feelings. all feelings were useless, in vain. hahaha....
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Hello friend, That's really good of you...you feel free to express you feelings which i agree. But sometimes,people had some good reasons for not expressing their love,sounds like sacrifice for the happiness of that someone they love. Wishing you all the luck to find the right girl for you dear
@buping (952)
• China
22 Oct 09
hi jaiho. i once fell in love with a guy, but i could not admit it. it was in my high school, i was in my 18 years old, the most important thing for me is studying. one day the boy came to me said he likes me, how about me? i liked him at that time, but i said no. coz i had to concentrate to my study.:) happy mylotting
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Hello friend, That's great dear,you choice to study over love. One good decision i guess,and i am sure you never regretted doing that. Have you finished your studies then my friend? And..are you free to fall in love again?
@sagnik42 (3589)
• India
22 Oct 09
I fell in love with one of my best friends during my school days. I wanted to reveal my feelings but was pretty scared. At that time I thought that if she did not share similar feelings for me then I will lose her for ever, even as a friend. That is what I was afraid of.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
hello friend, There...you lose the chance to tell her how much you love her is it? That was sad my friend,ok,i do understand that you were afraid to lose even her friendship,that's good of you. but,in my part,,i always had this feeling of.."why not try and let's see what will happen next ". Hope you will find the courage to tell her about your feelings.
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
It happened to me before during my school days, I have got a crush to someone of our organization and it turns out to love. It feels that I'm always happy when I see him. It takes two years when he knows that I like him because of my friends reveal it to him.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Hello irene, Remembering those days ha(hehehe) Yah,this is what i really think of,younger days when we are too shy and afraid to show how we feel. But those are sweet memories too,and what happened then when you friends reveals your greatest secret to your crush,i guess you have been a very pretty blushing young lady on that moment. I can imagine how you blush...as i can imagine myself too..cheers to us dear