male doctor examining your wife private parts

@BART78 (2931)
Canada
October 22, 2009 6:38am CST
MALE RESPONDENT ONLY:..do you allow male doctor to examine your wife private parts? how do you deal with it?
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@manong05 (5029)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
If my wife needs a serious medical attention and the only one available is a male specialist, I feel I will be unreasonably selfish not to allow him not feel bad about it. Chances are doctors are used to these things anyway. cheers!
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@BART78 (2931)
• Canada
22 Oct 09
...yah i'm beggining to think i'm unreasonably selfish..thanks to you all guys for responding to this thread, it was very enlighting, i really love this site...anyway my wife didn't need any medical attention, just opening my thoughts when this situation comes to me...happy mylotting to all of you!!
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@Hatley (164171)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 12
also thinking male doctors always have a woman nurse in the room at all times. no man will do anything wrong with a nurse present.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
eww i will answer that lol,even you said a male respondent only.it is just ok to have examine by male doctor actually my ob-gyne is male and he is professional and he is my ob-gyne for 3 years now.
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@BART78 (2931)
• Canada
3 Nov 09
oh really!! that's nice to know, i already get over this issue to myself, i got know trust with male doctors..you really all over my posted discussion..well appreciate it.. love yah!!
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
well im enjoying your discussion funny but interesting lol..
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
yeah your welcome,im enjoying your topics and its hot and interesting lol...others are funny
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@syankee525 (6293)
• United States
22 Oct 09
must be just married huh ? well i have nothing wrong with it. been there and done that. it's who she perfer to exam her. but if she feels confortable then be happy. but dont sweat over it for real. its like us having a female doctor examming us
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@BART78 (2931)
• Canada
22 Oct 09
oh hi there!! thanks for understanding!!
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• India
22 Oct 09
Look there cannot be any privacy from a doctor.If a male doctor is good enough as a gynaecologist you have to take your wife to him and have in examine her, there is no too ways about it.It is better not to think about it as anything more than a required medical checkup. Similarly, I would not have any qualms about visiting a lady specialist if the need arose.
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@BART78 (2931)
• Canada
22 Oct 09
hahaha!! alright!!
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@usemyname (640)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
If the male doctor has a reputation for being a perve, I wouldn't risk taking my wife to that doctor. I'll find a female doctor instead.
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@coldmoon (1092)
• France
22 Oct 09
I think that it's not a big deal, the doctor carries out his task, and he does it with many woman, so you don't have to worry that he has some special feeling with your wife. Besides, you can't get rid of the unease by replacing by a female doctor who might be lesbian. For a general exam, the doctor just have a look, for the serious case, he'll use a pair of gloves, for the more serious case, he touches your wife by his naked hands, but believe me, it's really urgent that he doesn't have time to think of the bads.
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@hexeduser22 (6692)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
It would be okay if there's really a need to. Worry if your wife is going to that particular male doctor everyday just for check ups.
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@Hatley (164171)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 12
bart o kay I broke your barrier but my only concern as a female with male obgyns are some are too ro ugh in examing us. I do now[refer a woman doctor as she knows not to punch and jab like we are some sort of meat animal not a human woman.As for most male ob gyns they do not preform an examinaiton without a female nurse'present just for allaying all worries. but men tend to be'less gentle on us and some parts when pushed on hard can be p ainful.