What will you usually feel when rejected?

@xarex777 (467)
Philippines
October 23, 2009 6:16pm CST
Hi.. I just want to know what will you feel if you were rejected especially by your friend or loved ones.. For me I feel sad but I don't take it so deep because it's part of our life to be rejected..
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@usemyname (640)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
At first I'd be disappointed. But, after some time, I'll just forget about it and think about what I have done wrong. I'll think of a way to improve myself. That way, maybe next I won't be rejected.
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@xarex777 (467)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
That's right. We need to forget everything but it's really hard to recover at times like this but we still learn from our own mistakes..
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
it is human nature to feel bad and sad. i feel bad and sad if someone rejects me. the intensity of our feeling would be more intense if rejection comes from ur loved ones and very close friends. this happened to me by a very close friend. i did not talk to her for quite a while ... must be several months. she knew i felt bad and just left me alone for a while. now, we have buried the hatchet and going on very smoothly being friends.
@xarex777 (467)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
Yes it's very hard to be rejected by your loved ones and close friends.. I'm now having some problem because I'm in love with my closest friend then yesterday I just told her that I love her but she does not feel the same way so I was really hurt.. We're friends for more than 3 years since I met her in college..
@k4karthik (439)
• India
23 Oct 09
Initial stages of my life i felt very bad when i got rejected by friends and loved ones. Now i am open to it. I started taking it as part of my life. I faced this type of situation many times. Now i am very careful in selecting the people. It reduced the frustrations. However i think the situations will not stop. This feeling i got because of my previous experience.
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@xarex777 (467)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
We had same experience my friend.. Now it seems that I'm afraid to say my feelings to someone because of my past..
@preetabh (49)
• India
25 Sep 10
yeah it feels bad but it also helps you to get out of emotional bonds. I take it as they are not able to understand me properly so in next time I should try in different way. So cheers
• India
8 Jul 10
I feel very sad and emotionally bad if my close friend or my loved ones reject me. Anyways my policy is to take life as it comes, so I will try to correct myself if anything is wrong on my side.
@bjcyrix (6907)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Im not really sure. I dont recall the feeling after being rejected. Im sure I have experienced that but right now at this moment, I cant think of any. Its just that I kinda dont care about things that deep enough that I will be terribly affected by the rejection. These days, if Im rejected I take it in stride and I can actually still smile a bit even when Im rejected. Imagining a little, if I was rejected by a person that Im thinking of, I would be hurt of course. I would also be extremely sad since I deeply care about this person. Hope that doesnt happen 'cause, imagining still, I dont know how I could cope with that.