3 signs that your man is cheating
By BART78
@BART78 (2927)
Canada
October 23, 2009 6:21pm CST
girls, singles, this if for you: how do you know if you are dating a cheater?
1. revived interest in appearance, i your date suddenly undergoes a makeover of sorts, in which he spends much more time on his appearance, it could mean that he is trying to impress someone new.
2. missing in action, if there's always a period your partner is absent and unaccounted for, with so many reasons or alibi, it could be because there are mishievous motives behind his awol behavior?
3. myterious text of phone calls, this is so obvious..
....oppts..got to go my buddies is gonna kill me for this..LOL!!
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13 responses
@truckergirl (85)
• United States
24 Oct 09
HEY,
very good ! but, to those examples you gave, each one could also mean something else. I agree that maybe in a lot of cases these examples could be true. I would not discount them at all. But, I also know for a fact, that some peolple change their appearance to keep the one their are with. If they think that their partner is attacted to a certain type, they try to become that type. Not because of someone else.2.) disappearing, a lot of reasons besides cheating. I know this one for a fact i've done it.to avoid conflict when I disappear, trust me I am not cheating. Most likely shopping, or just hanging out with people he or she may not like very much. 3.) Cell phone have to admit, thats a really,really good one. But, again, not prove of cheating. For one my cell is on constant lock down. I have a lot in my cell. I do not trust loosing it again, and someone having access to my photos,phone numbers and personal messages. Not because of my partner. 4.) Not answering when the phone ring.If i am with my partner, lot of time i do not want to answer, not because I am hiding something.
Oh, you forgot the most important thing...This is 2009, did you know the lastest, Women are more likely or just as likely to cheat? lol...Now what? (smile)
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
24 Oct 09
hey dear i wished had a look at your list before.my bf had done all the things you have written n i couldn't see it coming till it was too late and we broke up.i can't ever forgive him on cheating on me..i feel stupid
@lakerfanster (2577)
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24 Oct 09
I think really on number 3 is a clear cut sign there may be something going on.
1. Many people change their look for other reasons than they are looking to impress something they are going to cheat with. It could just be that they feel more confident looking a little different and they may have lost some weight recently and feel able to wear different clothes.
2. They may be working late at work or have met up with some friends, I'm sure most people have bumped into mates in town and then stayed out for a bit like gone to the pub or something.
3. Now if your partner is getting mysterious texts and phone calls then something probably is up. Especially if they go out of the room to take the call rather than gradually move away.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
uhmnn,woman had strong feeling when it comes to relationship "woman's intuition"
Shall i ask you the same question...otherwise?
"what are the 3 signs that your woman is cheating"
@babyfiona08 (652)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
This is an interesting post. Those things you've enlisted here were very true. Is that based on experience? lol
I agree on these especially on the second thing you've mentioned. If your partner is always missing or says he's busy even if there is an important affair, he maybe hiding something and he reason maybe is he's cheating. I don't want to judge anyone but mostly in cases like this, cheating is the case.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Oct 09
Hi baby fiona: As you have mentioned hope this advice isn't self-experience based. Lol. XD. Have a nice day and don't forget not to forgive a cheater. Lol.
@cheriezhao (246)
• China
24 Oct 09
i guess there was a sign i experienced when my bf broke up with me,i sent him message,he always didn't reply me as soon as possible.and then i guess there must be some problems between me and him,after a few days ,he said that.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
I get this idea from the book that if the man is starting to be mysterious and being so much secretive then that's it. Good thing I married the man who did not have all of those. Just got so lucky!!! And I could say it is one of a million.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Oct 09
Hi Bart: I think it's very easy to know that someone who did one of these actions is cheating on you. Even with that, thanks for sharing your list, sounds like a soup opera argument. Lol. XD. Specially for the first one that is not so obvious.
