Do you think that the life with our life partner is predestined?

India
October 24, 2009 2:13pm CST
In other words do you think you will meet your life partner automatically in life-will you accept the life that comes on your way? or will you work hard to find the best partner who suits your tastes and needs?
6 responses
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
25 Oct 09
Hi Vijayanths We may meet our life partner automatically or accidentally. It all just happens and works out if our views and thoughts are same and if we have the same feelings. So naturally we will be attracted and get closer to each other. My parents got me married to someone, which I accepted and living a happy and peaceful life with 2 grown up sons. My husband is an understanding and caring person who takes care of me very well and we will compromise for each other and for our children and life is going on smoothly so far. Nice discussion. have a nice day.
• India
25 Oct 09
Yes, in our Tamil nadu most of the women first saw their husbands only on the marriage day, things have changed a lot now, though. Do you think you should have born a couple of decades after Vathsala?
• United States
24 Oct 09
I sure hope not cause I have gone through hell with females and if that is predestined, hold back the rest, ya know. I don't think anything is preordained or destined, life happens and what comes of it will come. I feel like saying you are someones destiny, you must have a lot of faith.
• India
25 Oct 09
I think destiny will do its duty. yet I would rather try my best to plan my life, including choosing the partner.
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
I believe that every person that comes in your life is destined for you. Destined for you to learned something , either if they will help you or only give you problems. They are the person that help you to be a better person. They are either your boyfriend, from your neighborhood, your enemy , all of them have purpose in your life that is why you met them. So if you already met your life partner , you are lucky. And only you can feel if that is someone you need. Only you can tell. All person or everything that comes to your life is with purpose and you have purpose on anyone’s life too.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
25 Oct 09
Hi vijayanths, I feel that it is predestined, but that it was decided by both of us before we were born into this life. When we get together in this life however, we have free will as to whether we have a happy life together or not. We were no doubt together before but not always as partners, we do however have many things to resolve but whether we do it in this lifetime or not is something that we must decide. It really doesn't matter if we take a hundred lifetimes as time is man made and only appears real in the physical. Blessings.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
Hello my dear brother, NO,as i always says,we had our freewill,free will to choose and do things we want in our lives. "We are the architect of our own future" I never think my life was pre-destined to have an unsuccessful married life. Hope you are doing fine always my dear brother.
• India
10 Feb 10
yas i agre with u.