Do you believe in Love at Sight ?
By skkalra
@skkalra (966)
India
October 26, 2009 2:59am CST
Hello all,
Love just happens..either instantly or slowly..But, do you believe in Love at first Sight ? and igf you were able to get your Love, in such a way.. was that continued for long ?..Please share your experience. Thanks
6 responses
@cognoscentethelegend (1209)
• India
26 Oct 09
Hi skkalra, i never believe in first sight. I need time to take a right choice on my time. Because it's our life. After marriage we should not able to omit her. If i love at first sight, i will talk to her for long time and then i will realise whether she is suitable or not.
@Archie0 (5636)
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26 Oct 09
Negative, I think it is lust not love. I don't believe that there is love at first sight, it's impossible to be in love with someone you have never had a conversation with or even met. Most people seem to think so, for example girls thinking they love rock stars and wanting to marry them.
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
26 Oct 09
Love at first sight does exist but it does not last long. Love starts from a strong ralationship. It develops slowly then becomes strong and last for longer periods or lifelong.
@cognoscentethelegend (1209)
• India
26 Oct 09
But i have seen many peoples loved at first sight and they living happily now. I think based on our nature. Because if we feel to be with her/him, our life will be happy.
@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
26 Oct 09
"Love at first sight" is an impossibility.
Sure, there can be a definite attraction, a mutual chemistry, a linking of personalities, but LOVE? No way! Not if you are talking about true love - a life-long love and devotion.
I have known couples who were immediately attracted to each other, and their attraction developed into love, but love takes time.
I think one of the biggest problems facing young people today is a false understanding of love. People "fall in and out of love" over and over again - but that is not love. Love is pure and love will last, but love takes time to develop and mature.
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
Yes, sometimes.lol!There are moments that when you see someone it seems there's an instant connection that you easily like him or her. It is sometimes confusing but you really feel something that's beyond control.haha!But right now, it rarely happens to me as I never put consideration the physical look of a guy but more on maturity and inner personality.
@Ted_123 (151)
• China
26 Oct 09
Actually the love at first sight happens indeed, but the love does not necessarily last for long time, so i think it depends and there is no definite answer. For me, i dont believe in it because love is based on knowing each other and confirming whether each is the expected style of oneself or not.
Have fun...
@borhan (1338)
• United States
26 Oct 09
Though we all say the sentence, love at first sight, but it is not love. It is a firsthand choice. I agree with liking at first sight. If you really want to convert it to love, then you are to give some time to understand each other, knowing each other.
No friend, i could not make my one the "love at first sight", rather i had to wait long time to get consent from my beloved one, later on convincing my parents, her parents...., many dramas, many episodes of tears.
Yes, i married her and its a wonderfull life with her. I am the luckiest man in the world as i got my most beloved girl as my wife. Thank you.
