How can you not spoiled your kids?

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If we want to raise our child well mannered and not spoiled, we need to establish specific rules. And let that rules rules. As a parents, we need to set limitations and stick to that limitations no matter how our child begs... Our child needs to know the meaning of "no" and "enough". We need to make our kids understand clearly what we want to happen. If our child wants something make him or her work for it. We should not just give things to them. We can ask them to do some simple and light household chores like folding of clothes, washing dishes or setting the table... We must give what they want as a reward to good deeds. We should let them work for what they want. However,if ever what they want is not possible, we must clearly explain to them the reasons. Don't feel upset when your child seems to be disappointed and lonely, that is just simple way of preparing them to accept and cope up with frustrations. That is the best way to make them a better adult in the future.