How do you feel if you meet your past love after so many years?
October 26, 2009 11:58pm CST
Will you continue relationship with them? How would your reaction be?
27 Oct 09
I have never met such a situation before. If I meet my past love after so many years, I may come up to communicate with her actively. Of course, I may feel nervous and embarrassed but it is really necessary to call her out of politeness. But in my opinion, it is next to impossible for me to continue the relationship with her for I just want to continue my latest life. Have a nice day!
27 Oct 09
i think many people will encounter such a situation,if you relly in the love that you don't forget you miss lover .after many years if you met ,still have a bit feeling but that is no love ,maybe is a friendship or relatives .we all start a new life,so is happy should be a lot to say !
• United Kingdom
23 Feb 10
I met a man and we had a wonderful relationship. It was a long distance relationship so that was challenging for us. The summer and autumn had been great but our relationship didn't last the winter. We ended things by splitting up and I didn't expect to hear from him again. Years later he and I met up again. We were both in a relationship with someone else. Therefore we become friends and that was all. We had a fantastic day at Stratford Upon Avon. I remember our walk to Anne Hathaway's Cottage and sitting in the garden having a chat together. We kind of regretted splitting up but we knew we wouldn't get back together. For the next so many months we carried on meeting up in secret. One time we met up in Wales and I could see where I lived across the water. Other times we met up much further away like in Worcester. One time we went away for a night in a guest house. Of course we had separate beds and were just friends. The last time I saw him was at Warwick Castle. Then our friendship began to drift apart. I will keep the happy memories but I would not wish for one moment to be back together with him. My relationship with him will stay in the past.
23 Feb 10
Well that depends on the present situation. If I am not married and very much single and same as him, Maybe there is still a chance of getting back together... But that is not the only basis rorisricha. If there is still a spark or chemistry between us --- both sides then maybe yes! But since, we lost contact for many years, many things happened and somehow those expriences changed our personalities and likes as well... We will go under the "getting to know stage" again. It is not right to just jump in to the relationship again just because there is something years back... If we rush it, definitely the relationship will suffer.