do you still fancy an ex
By doormouse
@doormouse (4599)
October 27, 2009 8:05pm CST
i saw my ex on facebook the other day,and OMG he is still just as gorgeous as ever,he hasn't aged a bit,still looks just the same even after 17 years,i'd never do anything with him coz i love my bloke,but i just couldn't believe he was on there and still looked the same,where as me,i've put on 3 stone and no doubt look a lot older
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6 responses
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Hehehe.. That's really odd and an awkward feeling to stumble upon an ex. Well for me, I don't really have an official ex, just some flings and some crushes. So my guy doesn't need to worry.
I can't say however on his side since he has got a lot. I hope he's over them.
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@doormouse (4599)
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28 Oct 09
my man does'nt need to be worried,i only think my ex is gorgeous,i wouldn't get back with him,he's married anyway
@triplejazzm51 (1373)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Hi doormouse! Well you're lucky. Me, i have been wishing to bump with my ex one day but theres no way really. Its been 28 years and i still think of him once in a while. He was my first boyfriend and first love. I know he has his own family already but i would just want to know how they are. Anyway, i have'nt lost hope, maybe one day well see each other.
@triplejazzm51 (1373)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Doormouse, i tried that already, maybe he does not join such... what you call that? Maybe he does not want to interact with others in the internet. Well, i still dont lose hope. I know in my heart we will still see each other. Hehehe.
@crys7881 (249)
• United States
28 Oct 09
Oh gosh I have to admit I have looked some ex's up but I don't care for any of them anymore! Even if they are cute lol Mosty because when I would break up with a guy he would get mad and never talk to me again, I guess cause if I don't see a future with a person I don't waste my time and continue dating that person, so I nave made plenty of guys mad for that reason, which seems silly to me but whatever! So I am curious about what they are doing now but it's not cause I still like them or anything like that, I just think its fun to see how people have changed and what they are doing with their life now =) Good question!! giggle giggle..I might just have to go look some people up now!
@doormouse (4599)
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28 Oct 09
i didn't break up with him it was the other way round,probably why i still think he's gorgeous
@shajerrl (309)
• China
28 Oct 09
yes, Now I still have missed my ex-girlfriend sometimes though I have married with my current wife and I also love my wife very much. we leave each other for some special reason not for feeling...I believe she should also love me now, but life sometimes just like a joke, we can't change that, the only things we can do is accept that...so I will miss her just in my heart....thanks and good luck
@doormouse (4599)
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28 Oct 09
i don't miss him as a boyfriend,i just miss him as a friend,coz we used to get on so well,even when we weren't dating
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24 Dec 09
I dumped my boyfriend 3 months ago (i had just returned back to uni...he was no longer there as he had just graduated-so my first year without him).
i used to really love him, wanted to marry him! but then it just didnt feel right any more. Plus we started arguing a lot. plus i just dont see the point in having a boyfriend you dont see everyday. I began to see him more as just a good friend.
We broke up (im quite ashamed how i dumped him, by text and slept with someone else that same night...i just felt so trapped, was drunk and felt like defending my right to be single!). But now i regret how i did it so much.
me and the ex didnt talk for a month, but I thought about him all the time and had to deleted his number cuz i just wanted to text 24/7. I even sat through a whole 1.30hr of his favourite movie when it came on tv, just because i thought he'd be watching it at the same time too.
He came down and saw me after 6 weeks apart(he rang me), and we had a great weekend. As too the following weekend. But i just dont want a relationship with him again. its so much easier like this. I can call him when i want, if i want. no hassel. this is an important year for me and dont want the stress-i just cant handle too much stress (i did used to have stress issues as a child).
he still loves me. but im not sure if i love him...its too soon after the brake up to love him again. But i really do fancy him still, and we get on so well. He is my best friend, totally gorgeous...but i just dont know how i feel. any advice? In a way i just want a few months brake so i can really decide how i feel for him, plus he is going travelling soon. im just abit confused as he wants an answer from me and i just dont know how i feel? guidance please
@bounce58 (17380)
• Canada
28 Oct 09
Hi doormouse, are you sure it's his latest pic? Maybe the pic he put in there is also 17 years old?!
I'm lucky all my exes are a continent away. One came to the country last year, and we did a lot of online conversations, and flirting for over a week. It was great at first, but after a few days of talking, I remembered why we broke up in the first place.
