do you easily cry?
By ucue2008
@ucue2008 (924)
Malaysia
October 27, 2009 9:53pm CST
I am, but only if I am alone. But if I'm with other person, even with one other person, I cannot cry no matter how hard I try.Eeven though I want to say that I am sad and hurt and I want to cry, I will just not able to. It happen after many occurrence that after I told my problems and cried, the other party will put the blame on me. I hope that the other party will understand my weaknesses, but it not turn out that way, and without hesitating, my weaknesses and my sadness will only make other people blame it totally on me. SO starting that, I just don't cry in front of other people. It become harder as I cannot tell people my true feelings and keep hiding it. I guess, it really hard to find a person who will be beside you and say that's ok, you will get through it. Be strong and I know you can make it. I guess, this kind of words really difficult for people to say than to blame it all on that person for the sadness she went through. Happy mylotting
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23 responses
@sirestryder (24)
• United States
29 Oct 09
I actually haven't cried since i saw a movie 5 years ago.I seem to not care about emotions.Don't know if that's good or bad though.
@biman_s (1060)
• India
28 Oct 09
I am very much like you. I do not cry when I am in front of someone, even if I am in front of one person. My be because I don't want to show people that I am vulnerable. I want to show people that I a very strong but from the inside I might be crying. I cry when I feel hurt by someone. The last time I remember crying because of what God did to me by taking my father away from us. I really miss him.
@mkrishna22 (465)
• India
28 Oct 09
well,i can understand that certain people do not express their feelings openly. i have a cousin brother who is pretty similar to you,he never lets out his feelings in public.i for one am quite expressive and have cried man times and also in front of my people. i never really found it difficult.
@raiyandhaka (634)
• India
28 Oct 09
crying is a women nature. women are use to cry without any reason or with very little reason or with a reason that's not enough to make cry.
I'm a man, if i get lot of pains, hurt or shocked, which good enough to cry. but i can't cry ever. i can't remember, when i cry last time. may be i never cry. i carry on heart burn all the time. i though if its possible to make out my heart from the chest, the world might be burn. but again, i really cry all the time in mind. but cry is not come out side.
@swilbur85 (75)
• United States
28 Oct 09
I cry VERY easily. I have found that since I've had my daughter, that I am so much more emotional than I was before. I cry watching movies during a sad or even a HAPPY part. I cry when I get very angry, and it's uncontrollable. I'm not able to hold it back! I even tear up when I'm at work and a customer tells me a very happy and emotional story! I'm such a sobber now and it's all thanks to having my daughter! :)
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
28 Oct 09
Hello ucue2008,
That's quite surprising! I won't blame a friend who wants to have a shoulder to cry on. If I think that it's her fault, I will tell her honestly. If it's not, I won't blame her blindly. Back to your question, I am quite an emotional person. I can cry whenever I watch touching part of a movie or even listening to lyric of a sad song! Whatever it is, I can cry easily and to my husband, it shows that I am quite a weak person!
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
28 Oct 09
I cry sometimes. When I was very young, I was a real crybaby. I cried all the time like nothing was better. Now that I'm an adult its not so easy. I have a lot more experience and I guess I'm a lot harder. So its not often that I cry although I do sometimes.
@checkmail (2039)
• India
28 Oct 09
Hello ucue2008 this is checkmail and often did cry easily in my childhood whenever teased by others.Even a simple things haapens without my wish, use to cry out loud.Even when got hurt use to cry a lot, but now as have grown up hardly remember of crying due to anything.Actually i got to know that crying is bad for my eye health so stopped crying immediately.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Oct 09
There's no doubt about it. I am an easy crier. Mostly I cry easy at sad movies. I can't watch the heartbreaking episodes of Little House on the prairie. I am crying right along with the Ingalls family. We all can cry when we are injured so i don't count that in crying easy. One of the things that makes me cry the moswt easily is family goodbyes. I could be saying goodbye to a loved one at an airport and I would be trying to hold back the tears before they got on the plane. After they left, I would be crying in the car on my way home. If there is a tender moment, I'm already crying.
@sahilbange87 (52)
• India
28 Oct 09
i never cry and i dont remember when was the last time i cried, i personally feel that only weak,coward and those who cannot face challenges and life's reality cries and term it as tool to calm them out and bring out there emotions and all but one should be strong enough to face whatever life brings and convert it to what u want with ur hardwork and never ever cry and behave like coward no matter what.
@leincakep (62)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 09
I am including the person, which is difficult to cover up my feelings, about everything that was how I felt. But for crying, of course I will try to hold so it will not happen. Maybe because I am a man, I feel ashamed when I have to cry in front of many people. If there is something very pathetic, I choose to be alone, so if I cry, is not known by many people.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
28 Oct 09
I cry easily, but not very easily. My mother in law has a light heart and she cries when she watches most of the movies. Even if the movie has a good ending she cries for the sad part of the movie. I feel that I cry for more sily things than serious matters. I cry when I have small fights with my husband and it makes him feel bad and apologize. He hates to see me crying.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
I can relate your situation my friend.
Same thing happen to me,i open up my heart and mind to people whom i felt would help and understand me,but to my dismay,i was to be blame.
After that,i started to become stronger,i want to be thankful with that experience,becoz it helps me to be strong.
But,on the other hand,it makes me felt all alone.
I don't have someone i can trust to tell my problem,and no one to listen when i want to speak.
Whenever i wanted to cry,i just locked up my room and pray to God,and it helps me ease some pains.
Now,i was able to move on,and,i don't easily cry even if i wanted to.
Yah,i can hold my tears even thu i felt as if i am choking with sorrow.
I am not happy that i become strong,i felt sad becoz,i felt like my heart was too numb to felt pain and,i am scared that,one day,i can't cry anymore.
@moneymakingtoday (4061)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
I am smiling here as I read your question. I am a person who cries so easily. I cry when I hear sad stories of my daughter's classmate. I cry when I watch television shows about misfortunes of others. I cry seeing the people's situation during the flood in the northern part of the Philippines. I cry when a very sick child is shown on tv and that they are soliciting for donations. And ... very funny, I cry when some poor, ordinary, intelligent, old, or disabled people win in the game shows or games of luck. 
. My children always tease me upon seeing tears in my eyes.
. My children always tease me upon seeing tears in my eyes.
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
I easily cry sometimes when someone talk against me which is really hard to accept. Sometimes also its hard for me to cry no matter what are the person saying against me but I always cry when we have an argument between me and my boyfriend.
@nawanta (328)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 09
I remember that the last time i really cried was about 9 years ago. I was cried alone in my room because my best friend left me. After that, i never really cried. I just almost cried. When something hurt me so much, i did really want to cry. But i've tried so hard that my tears won't fall on my cheek. I've been succeded till now.
