how will you take it

Hello Petalkenny and welcome to my lot. I don't know is she still cheating? Do you still think that you are in love with her? Are you happy in your marriage? Was it a one time thing? Have you ever cheated on her? Do you think this marriage is worth keeping? It is not the child's fault what the mother did! Do you love this child? Think about anything you do before you do it! A marriage in Gods eyes is forever but when your in a relationship that you are not happy in and you don't think it can last forever then you might should see a marriage counselor and if that don't work, there is only one choice left divorce. If you don't think you can forgive her then you need to move on. It is a hard thing to do divorce is hard on everyone especially since you have children. Did she say this in anger? Maybe she was just upset and wanted to lash out at you. I think I would have a DNA test done before I did anything. But I think if I was in your shoes I would pray and ask God what He think you should do. No one can tell you exactly what to do. There is always two sides of a story and without knowing the whole story no one can say what they would do in your shoes. Good luck and pray God knows what is in your heart!