Disappointed.. Betrayed...

Philippines
October 30, 2009 10:52pm CST
This is what I feel today. What would you do when you discover something from the person you love. And the thing that you discovered really shocked you.The person I trust and respect so much is having an affair with a married man. She taught me what is right from wrong. She prohibited me from seeing someone who loves me because she thinks that that person doesn't deserve me. Then all of a sudden I discovered that she was lying to me.. Everytime I see her I don't know what to feel. Until now she doesn't know that I already know her secret. I don't have the gutts to confront her. When she gives me advice now. I don't know if I should follow her. Because I don't believe her anymore. I'm so confuse. I don't know what to do.
3 responses
@BART78 (2931)
• Canada
31 Oct 09
...men!! where's your ba**s?..it's that your mom?...well, you really need to confront that person, how can you respect someone if he/she is unrespectable, my advise is go to church and pray, ask for strengh and wisdom so you could talk to that person and pray that he/she will listening and sojourn his/her wrong doing....hope this will help..
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Yes, that's what I did last night. pray a lot ask for wisdom and strength. Thank you dear friend
@BART78 (2931)
• Canada
31 Oct 09
...you're welcome my friend..
@clorissa123 (4930)
• United States
31 Oct 09
I guess that is a pretty tough one for you to confront now. I don't know what kind of advise I can give it to you. But you still have to face it yourself. I meant just be brave. Told her what you know, and told her how you feel about that. Solve it reasonably. You might find a better answer to your confusion.
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
I wish I could, but I just don't have the courage to ask her. I know she will deny it. I just don't know what to feel right now. I wish I could just accept it but I just can't. She knows that she a lot of people if she continue loving that man. I had lunch with her just awhile ago. I can't look at her. I don't want to hate her but that is what I feel right now. Thank you dear friend for your opinion I really appreciate it.
• United States
13 Nov 09
It is like being friends with somebody. And then you start talking about religion. Or you begin to observe religious practices they do. Or you start to gather little things they say, and you realize they really don't believe in what you believe in. Or that they are insulting you by doing some of the things they are doing. A friend can be a friend for awhile until you realize that you are freer without them. A different thinker may want to look good by remaining amiable with the social norm, but trying to can actually be worse for all.