like father like son?? oh god help me...
@nikolausriki88 (176)
Indonesia
October 31, 2009 6:48pm CST
i have a problem with my girl friend..my parents do not agree with our relationship. it's because i have been told to may parents how the house condition of my girl friend.. it is broken home..and it's to be the reason why my parents scare it would be happen to me..because like father like son...but i know how my girlfriend is...and i love her very much...
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@shalli17here (627)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 09
wow..ok personally i think that's a narrow minded. we can't make it generally like that. beside, there are some cases that eventhough they came from a broken home, the childs learnt from it and they will avoiding themself to become such a person. They wouldn't let their future little family turns out to be a broken home for their childs, because they knew how it feels to have a divorced parents.
i'm not telling you to againts your parents Niko, but invite them on a discussion. Explain to them that you girl is different, that you really know how she is, and you believe in her won't let your relationship or further little family became a broken home. Explain to them and prove it, both you and your girl..
Good luck Niko
@shalli17here (627)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 09
hi Niko =) thanks alot for your compliments, I'm glad if this little advises could help you and your girl a bit..really, good luck for your future with her =D
I do love to share, ask an advises too from my friends, and listen to their problems too ( vice versa ), those makes me learn about the vary of problems in this lifes. And also, it helped me to ease my own problems with a thought that, there are other people out there facing a bigger problems than me, so mine is nothing..=)
Happy mylotting again Niko, and Happy Sunday for both of you =D
@nikolausriki88 (176)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 09
i think you are a good listener and maybe your friend often share to you about their problems?? you give the good advice and solution to out from this problem, that is to accompany my parent discussing..i ever try it but none, and i'll try again...
thank a lot for your advise and solution my friend..hope you always give me some motivation in my discussion...thanks shalli
@nikolausriki88 (176)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 09
thanks, happy sunday too Shalli....o ya, may i know where are you from??
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
Like father, like son refers to the attributes that are similar in the parent and the child. It does not follow that if the parent has a broken home relationship, the offspring will also have a broken home relationship. My parents has more than half a century of kindling each other. My home had been broken a long time ago.
@nikolausriki88 (176)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 09
ow i'm sorry to hear that...i know and i agree with you..and i hope my parents will understand me someday..thanks a lot...
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
Just be sure that you are truly in love with your girlfriend. I don't really like children making their parents feel bad and unhappy.
@nikolausriki88 (176)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 09
as i said that i love this girl, i don't care about other people said..but parents approval is important too..thanks for the advise..
@nikolausriki88 (176)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 09
Yea, thanks for your advise...but i didn't know why my parents think bad to my girlfriend..
