I can't believe how few houses were giving out candy tonight!

@dragon54u (31636)
United States
October 31, 2009 9:32pm CST
Tonight was Halloween and also, for once, Beggar's Night. I went and sat on my porch with candy for everyone plus dog treats for my canine friends and noticed that only about 1 in 5 houses had their porch light on. One mom remarked on it and said it was probably the poor economy. Did you give out candy tonight or did your budget not permit it? It was hard to get all that candy on my budget but I turned down the heat, turned up the air conditioning and really cut back as much as I could these past few months in order to get enough candy. I know this day isn't a big deal to most people but I sure do enjoy it and it's worth the sacrifice for me. I know there are people who are at the end of their rope, though, and can't afford to give out candy. How was your neighborhood tonight? What percentage of houses on your street had their porch lights on?
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@uath13 (8192)
• United States
1 Nov 09
Actually seemed about normal in my mothers neighborhood where my daughter went trick or treating. It wasn't as much as a few years ago but there's a new subdivision that has taken a lot of the crowds.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
1 Nov 09
New subdivisions are usually great for candy. When we lived in the desert with no houses around I took the boys to a subdivision ten miles away--expensive houses, expensive cars and very good candy! No suckers or bubble gum for the most part, just yummy chocolate!
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@Raven7317 (691)
• United States
1 Nov 09
Good morning, Dragon - we didn't buy candy, we didn't have too... My son's preschool took them Trick o Treating on Friday to the City Hall and he got a ton of candy... Well, he's 4 and doesn't eat candy - even if we let him, he's not a candy kind of kid - and my DH is diabetic, so he can't eat it... So I just took a few prizes out and a few emergency bars out and saved the rest for giving out... Where we live, it was the complete opposite of you! In my neighborhood, ALL houses had lights on - but we HARDLY got any kids! I only got rid of about half of the candy... I was really shocked because it was extremely warm and it was a great night for walking... I got from our neighbors that it was probably a mixure of the fear of the Swine Flu AND the Economy... The holidays are so obsenely commercialized now anyway and alot of families just can't go all out anymore... I was disappointed, but what can you do???
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
2 Nov 09
We have a lot of kids in our neighborhood, and we did keep our lights on. In fact most of the houses did. I know the one across the street did. So I did wonder why there were hardly any children. The trouble is that next year there might not be any Swine Flu and the economy might improve and people will decide not to buy as much candy and then there will not be enough candy to go around.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
2 Nov 09
I probably would have gotten more if it had been warm out--it was in the 40's! My feet were freezing by the time it was over. I sit outside and close the dog door so my dogs don't wear themselves out barking and scaring the children. Strangely enough, the parents I got to talk to between waves of kids said they weren't concerned about the flu. I did see a LOT of kids with runny noses and coughs, though. Try giving the candy to a homeless shelter or nursing home. It'll make your boy feel great to take it to someone who really wants it.
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• United States
2 Nov 09
Hey! That's a great idea! I usually do donate alot of things to homeless shelters, but I never thought of the candy! Thanks!
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@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
1 Nov 09
Oh i didn't even know that there were few houses giving out candy? I wonder if it's because of the swine flu epidemic that we've been hearing so much about? I think it's probably also to do with that and the recession. I actually bought a lot of chocolate to give up and for the first time ever, no one even came to our door!!! I couldn't believe it, and now am faced with all that leftover chocolate and what to do with it. lol No, I don't eat chocolate as I'm very allergic to it, but someone will...
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
2 Nov 09
I'm sure a local homeless shelter would love to have your leftover candy. What about your church? Do you have social services there? Call them and see if they can use it. I'm sure some type of social program will be glad to take it off your hands, many a senior center or old age home. Gee, I'm sorry you didn't have anyone, it's so much fun to see all the children dressed up and having fun!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
2 Nov 09
We had our first of the month coffee social and they bought their left over candy. So I guess I may put ours away in the freezer and have it every week. I usually get my husband a large package of four chocolate bars every week. Now how am I going to divide little mini bars into four chocolate bars.
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
in my country,trick or treating is not really a country tradition.I would love to be there and give out candies to kids and food and treats for beggars and their canines.I would do it,even if the economy is bad.it is a great feeling giving out to people.it's worth the sacrifice.if I were there,I would probably bake some breads to give to the beggars.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
1 Nov 09
We used to give out cookies and popcorn balls but for the past 30 years people have been paranoid about poisonings and kids are not allowed to have treats that haven't been factory sealed. We used to bake cookies to give out and looked forward to getting popcorn balls; people would give out fruit, too. But no more. It takes some of the fun out of it but I'm glad that at least we still have the tradition of begging!
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@solared (1207)
• United States
1 Nov 09
I would say its the poor economy in Ohio for sure, only places worse Detroit and California. No I had my fence locked no one came here, didn't even have candy myself, the sweetest thing I had was chocolate milk.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
2 Nov 09
The economy is not as bad here, we have rather a mixed economy so if one thing fails there is always something to take its place, but I do not know with the weather getting colder and the growing season getting shorter whether we will be in the same boat. I can understand those who turn their light off because they do not believe that Halloween is good for children. I would turn off my light if it were not for my husband. I think having a party and inviting all the children to a hall is a better alternative.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
1 Nov 09
It's pretty bad where you are, too! I have a nephew there who lost his job nearly a year ago and hasn't found one yet. He and his family will probably end up here with me if something doesn't turn up soon. Not that I would mind but there are no jobs here, either.
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@kathcake (70)
1 Nov 09
Halloween isn't as big in the uK as it is in the states but people are still big on Halloween parties, fright nights and we do get trick or treaters. However this year we only had one come and visit our door! We always give out sweet or chocolate as we have so much rubbish that no one eats someone's gota have it! lol
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
2 Nov 09
We just love giving stuff out to the little kids and keeping candies around is not good for me. If I get depressed I start to eat the wrong things. But at least we bought candies with nuts in it this time. I told my husband who told me to pick up some no peanut candy because it was on sale a month ago that the reason I ate so much was because it did not satisfy me. If a candy has peanuts in it I can have just three or four tiny pieces a day and that is enough.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
2 Nov 09
America is trying to do the parties and such more than the door to door but it's not as much fun for kids as roaming the streets and begging! I love seeing all the kids dressed up.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
1 Nov 09
Last year and the years before we would get up to one hundred and more kids but this year we just got 20. So we had the opposite that you had. I suppose it is that tomorrow's Sunday and the kids have to go to bed early to be at church tomorrow or it could be that they are all scared of that horrible flu virus, but it is not the same as it was the year before.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
2 Nov 09
It could have been that they did not want to go as we have a wheelchair ramp and the parents did not want to disturb us because they did not want my husband to wheel out and have to open the door himself. Now what are we going to do with all that candy? I cannot eat that much. It is not dark chocolate and I do not know how to keep it. It is chocolate candy bars. I could keep them in the freezer, but for how long?
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
1 Nov 09
We're not scared of the flu here. Everyone I talk to in the store, at the post office, my neighbors--most of them think it's just a way to distract us from the economy. It's made no impact on our lives. But there were a lot of babies out last night that were coughing and had runny noses! Too bad you had so few kids! I saw a lot of great costumes!
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• United States
1 Nov 09
Trick or Treating was alive and well here as far as I know. I saw trick or treater's in five different neighborhoods on my way to where I like to take my kids. One neighborhood suprised me because I saw a whole block lined up with cars parked on both sides of the streets and that was one neighborhood I thought about visiting before Halloween came but wasn't sure if they even allowed that there. My girls got a lot of lolipops and three musketeers. We got out late, like 7 oclock and right when we started heading back to the car it started raining and then when we GOT to the car it was pouring (thanks for my costume as I had to buckle car seats) but I felt like we didn't even visit that many houses and my girls bags were hefty, from chocolate.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
2 Nov 09
Good job!! I always loved taking my kids out, it was so much fun! We only got rained on once in all those years and it was just a brief sprinkle. I'm glad you had fun!
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@spalladino (17891)
• United States
2 Nov 09
I live in a small neighborhood outside of town and all the kids go into town to trick or treat so I only get 3 every year...my grandchildren who live nextdoor make their first stop to see Nan and take pictures. As far as I know things were normal in town last night. Halloween is a big deal for us. Houses are decorated as if it were Christmas and, since we're in Florida where the weather is still nice, there's a lot of chatting and fun. There was also a Halloween event in the park on Thursday evening that a lot of folks attended. I'm sure that many folks here bought less expensive candy but I don't think too many turned off their porch lights. I know that my little devil, spiderman and bridzilla (she was going to be a bride but she was in a mood) came home with a whole bunch of candy.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
2 Nov 09
You have an advantage down there--it was about 45 degrees here and many of the children were wearing longjohns under their costumes! What fun it must be to have grandchildren! I'm 55 but still years from becoming a grandma (hopefully), my sons are only 21 and 22 and still in college. We've been hit hard by the economy here in Ohio. I saw a lot of Spidermen last night and lots and lots of monster brides!
@jenlex79 (256)
• United States
1 Nov 09
Where I went, there were a lot of houses giving out candy. I went to a friends neighborhood since there are no houses in my area. They gave out handfulls of candy to the kids and one house gave them a dollar a piece. I think it was a good night for them, much better then last year. Maybe things are starting to get better in the economy.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
1 Nov 09
I hope it's getting better where you are. I'm in Ohio and it's very, very bad here. I made quite a few sacrifices to buy the candy but I had so much fun it was definitely worth it! I would love to give out dollar bills, but that would cost me several hundred dollars with all the kids here!
@jenlex79 (256)
• United States
1 Nov 09
I hope it gets better for you soon. It's nice to know that there are some people out there like you making sacrafices for yourself just to make sure the children have a good time.
• United States
2 Nov 09
my son went out and he got 12 pounds of candy so there is alot in my neighborhood
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
2 Nov 09
Wow, that's a LOT!! I hope his loot reflects how much fun he had.
• Poland
1 Nov 09
in my country it isn't popular fete but sometimes kids visit my house in haloween so i always have candy for they :)
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
1 Nov 09
I think it's mainly in Ireland, England and here in the United States. I see you are from Poland, is it very cold there? I always imagine it as a dark, cold place in the winter. I hope you are staying warm! Welcome to myLot! I hope you have fun and make lots of friends here!
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
1 Nov 09
And Canada too where I live, Halloween is just as big as in the US.
• United States
2 Nov 09
im sure im late here but were i live i was shocked when i saw that they have trick or treating laws like onl 7-9pm and age limit of 12 really thoe is that legal?
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
2 Nov 09
We have it specified from 6-8 PM but no age limit. Heck, I was giving candy to adults and teens! I don't think they should limit the age. Childhood should last as long as possible. If teens are out begging for candy, they aren't out making mischief!
• United States
1 Nov 09
where i went they were gfiving out candy but not alot. I mean i dont know if it was because it was cold but there was almost no kids on the street trick o treating. but my daughter got so much candy that is going to last her for a very long time. but there was alot of people who were not giving out candy. i think is the economy but the kids had lots of fun
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
2 Nov 09
I went over my receipts today to figure out how much candy I have to buy next year and I was surprised--I didn't spend as much as I thought I had! I'm going to triple it next year so I can give more to each child or teen--some had bags that didn't have much in them. One mom did say the economy was probably to blame for the lack of houses giving out treats and I guess I agree with her. One of my neighbors across the street was giving some out but ran out very early, she only had one basket full. I guess we give what we can and some can't give anything. It's a shame they miss seeing all the cute kids!
• United States
1 Nov 09
We went where we usually go, and I was shocked that there were so few houses giving out candy. Normally there are 5 houses that don't give out candy in that big sub division. Yet this year there was over half of the houses not giving out candy. But the kids still got close to 20 pounds of candy even with it being at half. The worst part is that I am sure it wasn't due to the economy, the folks that live in that sub are rich folks. $250,000 homes and up. So I think it was just people that were being grouches. One place up there that never gives out is a 1 million dollar home. They are just stingy year after year they never give out candy. They even put up a sign that say's no trick or treeter's allowed. R.D. had his brother stay at our place and give out candy last night, we gave out a lot. But we took in way more then what we gave out.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
2 Nov 09
I just do not understand people like that. Halloween is a real joy to me, seeing the smiles of children and the sheepish looks of the teens! A couple of teens walked by and I asked them, don't you want any candy? They replied that they were a little too old and I told them I was 42 before I stopped begging along with my kids. They gladly took some and their smiles really made my day. One small girl about 4 years old blew me a kiss when her mom told her to say thank you and that little gesture was so sweet that I'm still smiling about it! Those stingy people are missing so much fun! They aren't really rich at all, are they? They are spiritually impoverished and no amount of money in the world will make them wealthy.