If your ex boyfriend told you how much he miss your ,what 's your anwer?
By lubeimao
@lubeimao (118)
China
November 2, 2009 6:25am CST
If you ex boyfriend call you,and tell you how much he miss you .As to you , it has been three months when he declared everything is over .You suffered a lot ,but now he ask a forgive and want to everything restart ,what's your anwer ,do you accpet or not ?
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4 responses
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
3 Nov 09
If he was the one who called it off and hurt you in the process then waited 3 months before coming back only one thing comes to mind. He lost his other girl friend so you will have to do.
There is no question that you cannot trust him. The answer here should be simple.
Not only NO, but HE** NO you do not accept!
@lubeimao (118)
• China
3 Nov 09
After seeing so many words ,i understand how weak i accept him again .And then hurt again,and finally understand maybe i am blind at that time .Lukily ,everything is over ,and i found real love at last.You can see my picture: my boyfriend and me happily.
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@getbrowser (1708)
• China
2 Nov 09
I must say he turn out to be fickle and you'd better pay no attention to his words.
As you have said above, you have suffered a lot from your relationship. Now, he comes back to ask a forgive and want to everything restart, in my opinion, his action has told you that he is fickle and if you agree with him and restore the relationship, then you may suffer from it again.
You'd better refuse his request.
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 09
Since you mentioned that 'you suffered a lot' that means if I am in that terrible situation, it will be hard for me to accept him back. I may forgive, but will never forget. If he says he misses me, my answer will mostly depends on how much I love him OR how much pain he has put me through.
If I feel I still love him, it doesn't mean that I want him back in my life because the wound will always be there. It will only reminds me how much he has hurt me and it can actually turns love into hate!
@lubeimao (118)
• China
3 Nov 09
Maybe you are right ,but i don't know why i always remember how kindly he treat me ,but i don't remember how cruel he has did to me .Maybe he still at somewhere in my heart .Maybe i think i will show indifference to him ,but i will not hate him ,because maybe in his mind i have some mistakes ,too.
@Louc74 (620)
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2 Nov 09
Hi, Lubeimao. I think you're too good to be with someone who didn't cherish and treasure you. And remember - if the wrong person is in your life, there isn't any room left for the right person to come into it!
So I'm afraid I would be cheeky, and say (sing) "If ya liked it, then ya shoulda put a ring on it! Woh-oh-ohh, oh-oh-ohh!" Lol!
