i should have married a seahorse?

that is quite interesting. i think a lot of men have issues with committment to be sure but hubby and i have great conversations. i love his sense of humor so i think i will keep him.

men have always been the dominating ones. i find it difficult to assign a reason for that...but throughout history this has remained a fact. (except for some cases where some women had strong manipulating powers). but times are changing and people are becoming more aware and understanding of all the wrong ways that had been followed. things are moving towards equality. although many times this equality leads to confrontation but i think with time things will balance out. btw - who is the lucky seahorse......do i get an invitation..??

I do know about this fact, and you are right. It depends on the individual totally and some are worse off while others are better. The thing is early detection... If one's original behavior can be detected as early as possible in the beginning of the relationship, all the more better.

Men have the attention span of a nat, think that seahorses have a long attention span? Men also have no memory, have you ever seen that movie "First 50 Dates"? I live in a house full of the male species and I feel like I'm living with 5 of those guys that had the 5 second memory. So I'll take the seahorse.

OMG! DO NOT LET THE MEN FOLK READ THIS!! http://news.yahoo.com/s/livescience/20091031/ss_livescience/surprisingsexbehaviorfoundinbats

A sloth would make a wretched mate, I'd assume. I think maybe next time around I'll be a Queen Bee, and have zillions of drones to do my bidding.... People are people, male and female, I don't think one side has it over the other. Some folks do relationships well, others don't. My X is a three time weenie, finally found a woman who doesn't mind being his Mommy...whatever floats their boat.

hi jb blue bunny I really think it depends on the guy some men are lousy husbands, and some are really great but I have to think that men would make lousy pregnant baby carriers. I do not know of many husbands that are really great with nausea, and morning sickness, and back aches, and going to the bathroom at least ten times a day, and all the little niceties of being pregnant would make a lot of men get down on their knees and beg the good Lord to deliver them. But in relationships I have known a lot of great husbands that made their wives really happy because they truly loved them and cared about them. I think my own husband was one of the great ones as he helped me with house work and caring for the kids, because he wanted to, not because I nagged him, for I would never do that. So I have missed him all the years I have been a widow.

Depends on the person and on who the person is matched with... Intelligent conversation is overrated anyway. Can't believe I just said that.

Well I've never come across a seahorse not even in the sea and always presumed they were rather like mermaids. Anyway they won't be able to make any conversation at all because if they take their heads out of the sea they'll probably die. But I'm sure that tortoises evolved from marine life originally and you should see a male tortoise literally run when he's been having a his way with a female one. No stopping around there for a nice chat afterwards or to ask if he thinks he got her pregnant.

Oh, there are so many ways to respond to this one, but as it is Monday morning and I am not really in the mood to fight, I guess that I will go with a serious one. I know, not that much fun. I think that you are right about it depending on the person rather than the gender. All people have good and bad qualities, and I think these qualities in there entirety determine whether or not a person is good at relationships, regardless of gender. I wouldn't mind, however, if we could take turns with the guys in the childbearing aspect of the relationship, though.

.. lol... well i actually havnt met any of the good one yet.. i guess thats why im single... any of the good guy ive met are either not strait, taken, or soooo much older.. im just going to go ahead and say women are better.. lol