Can you tolerate for GF or BF who is very conservative?
By joandevil
@joandevil (58)
Malaysia
November 2, 2009 7:25pm CST
Below is a scenerio about one of my friend:
Her boyfriend and her have been together for more than four months. But, up to now, they only hold hand. Whenever he tried to kiss her, she will avoid. She know herself is conservative type and still cannot open up for him yet. Will him tolerate for that? How long will it be? Any advice ...
4 responses
@AlkaiserMO (106)
• United States
3 Nov 09
Give it time! The relationship is still very much in the early stages, and she will learn to relax and be more comfortable when she is ready. I should hope that he would understand that about her, and I'm sure it won't be much longer. Or maybe recommend that they talk about with one another!
All the best.
@joandevil (58)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
How to start the conversation since the gf is so conservative? She may feel offended and think on the wrong side? This is what my friends is worried about...
@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
4 Nov 09
Conservative people are conservative. That's the way of their life i guess and at times it takes more time to unleash their being "aggressive" side. The guy must wait for her girlfriend to be kissed. For sure, she will be ready in no time. After all, relationship is not about just kissing someone. Its about understanding.
Happy myLotting!
@MissKatPegasus (155)
• United States
5 Nov 09
I think it's more that she's shy and doesn't know what it will feel like to kiss someone for the first time. I remember my first kiss when I was 16. It was terrible lol. I learned to really like it though so she's probably just nervous and confused. Nervous because what if she does it wrong or doesn't like it and confused because she doesn't know if it's the right thing to do. Give it time.
