If there's an argument between you and your mate how to resolve it in short time

A couple..... - Many weeds grow in between in ones life if distance comes between you..so never give that chance....
India
November 2, 2009 11:42pm CST
As far as I know each and every couple argue with each other sometime for one thing or other..how much love they have between them also it happens in almost every bodies life I believe...how to resolve it shortly without dragging it...until it breaks...and get together...Have a good day...
5 responses
• Singapore
6 Nov 09
me and hubby quarrel a lot hehehe....sometimes over the smallest issue. if it's a huge row, then we will give each other some time to cool down (it may take mins, hours or even days) and then either me or him will start to take the initiative to talk first and make the other party smile again, then all will be forgotten..until the next fight
@picjim (3002)
• India
3 Nov 09
I feel its best not to say harsh words which we might regret later.Its better to kiss and make up quickly as we otherwise the relationship could be damaged.A bit of give and take should be there else the relationship will not progress.A good debate or disagreement can actually make the relationship stronger only if its not stretched too far.
• China
3 Nov 09
My wife and I also argue.There is no difficulty for us to solve it,since we know each other really.We have arguement most often for misunderstanding.After she explains to me or I explain to her,the argument is resolved.But sometimes she is angry not for me and I annoy her.She will become more angry.I can't resolve the problem with explaining and can just wait.After a while she will become quiet and I will feel well.If it is my wrong I have to comfort her or she can't forgive me.So if I had done something wrong I would comfort her as soon as possible.
@allknowing (130471)
• India
3 Nov 09
Arguments, disagreements are a sign that a couple is involved with issues of mutual interest. There is no tailor made method to diffuse arguments.But I have seen positive results when one of the two vacates the scene and comes back later by which time the whole scene will have a new look. Trust me. This works.
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
3 Nov 09
Yes me and my gf also argue with each other....Wht i do to stop the argument is simple...I listen to her and i agree with her wht she says....If she is in a mood o understanding i try to make her understand and if she`s not in the mood i just listen her.....I like listening to her....It makes her happy and i want to see her happy....:-)