what's your opinion about the girls who sleep with different men????

@LisaGuo (242)
China
November 3, 2009 2:46am CST
I just read a short story of a girl.The girl wrote the story of herself.There's a nice guy who loved her so much.He never cared about what she did to him.He did all lovers do only for a smile from her.They even moved together for 3months.However this beautiful girl gave him up at the end,because she couldn't help thinking about sleeping with other men. We can imagine her life before moving in with that guy.Yes,that's the life she wants.Be frank,I can't really understand her.In my opinion,most girls prefer the life with the be loved one,for a kind of stable life.Why did she do that????God~!What's your opinion???
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13 responses
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
Im really not sure whats going on with her but that trait is pretty common nowadays and for her to give up that man was really stupid. I guess their both stupid in some ways (not sure if this is the appropriate word). How can that man let the girl do anything to him, is he blind or what? And I agree with what other people said this must be a psycho thing, probably something happened to her when she was young that triggered this behavior. Girls who do these need help and someone they can talk to and understand them. Probably this was the reason why that guy was always there for her and did mind no matter how much she hurts him. Sad. Probably I'll do the same thing if I was in his case :(
@LisaGuo (242)
• China
4 Nov 09
Nice guy you're.It must be probalely something happened to her and resulted this.If something about psycho,she may be coming good once she going do the psychologist.Wish she good luck.
@cutepenguin (6448)
• Canada
3 Nov 09
I don't know. I kind of think it's her choice. After all, there are plenty of men who won't settle down with one woman because they want to be able to be with other women. It's unusual but I don't think it's all that bad.
@LisaGuo (242)
• China
4 Nov 09
Yes,it's trus.It's her choice.One has the right to live the life he likes.
• India
3 Nov 09
Hi LisaGuo. How are you. This topic is just a typical one. That girl has just erred to select a very suitable guy at the first instance. There is one saying that you would like to have a thing which you do not have. That is rightly applicable in this case also. If the girl gets every thing from one guy I think there will be no necessity for her to go for another guy. In other words she would opt for another guy only when she runs short of fulfilling her desire. For this every girl or boy must carefully choose their partner taking into account the entire aspirations they have in their mind. If you succeed in this selection there would arise no necessity to think of another one deciding to parting with the present one. Living with one man or one woman for long will help developing their relationship and intimacy to full extent which will enable them to lead a happy life in old ages say in fifties, sixties, seventies etc. Thanking you for opportunity to share my views. WITH BEST WISHES.
@LisaGuo (242)
• China
4 Nov 09
Hi manofstrongming2v2(really long name:)),I do agree with you that it's important to choose the one you'd like to spend the entire life with.Before getting married,I'd like to live with him too,it's kind of training between us. As a girl,I'll say no to life of this girl.
@earth2jacq (1503)
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
Just so I get this discussion right....you mean after she is finally with the love of her life, she decided to give him up because she can't control herself to not sleep with other guys? If the situation was simply that the girl have not found the love of her life, I wouldn't have qualms nor have anything to say about her sleeping with other guys. After all it is her life and her body she is destroying anyway. Since the situation is that she preferred to give up this guy, then I could say that she does not deserve the love this guy is offering as she cannot stay loyal to him. As a consolation to the guy, atleast he found out this early what this girl truly is. Many women would give up anything just to have an honest loving guy beside them and this girl just took him for granted.
@LisaGuo (242)
• China
4 Nov 09
Pity that this guy never been hated her.She writes that this guy is going to be married in next month..No one will get married so fast,he's really hurt.But he still loves her.Sometims,it's hard for us to define "love".
@maximax8 (30099)
• United Kingdom
3 Nov 09
I think that is girl that you describe is unusual. I imagine that some teenage girls like to have one night stands with different men. However it their twenties they might meet the man that is right for them and settle down. Most girls in their twenties or thirties like to with one man and to have a stable life. Maybe the girl that you are discussing had one depressing things happen to her that have upset her deeply. I wonder why she only lived with the man for three months. Spitting up with him might have been her biggest mistake.
@LisaGuo (242)
• China
4 Nov 09
Yes,there must be something happened and hurt her hardly. As she felt bad to leave that guy when she kept thinking with other men,she had to leave away from him.It's hard to meet some guy who really cares you,it'sa regret for her leaving.
@voldrox (7200)
• India
4 Nov 09
hi lisaguo i can understand why you find this weird, it is for me as well, i don't know what way they think but i can safely say very few women are actually like this, most of them would settle in with the one they love and would not even want to have another chance for some other guy, well i don't know what these kind of girls think, they guy should have come to know about it earlier and not fallen for her, miserable life such women live eh.
@justmeh (189)
• Philippines
4 Nov 09
Hmm...well by just reading the title makes me hate her already...you know that?Those girls can be considered as dirty...oh sorry for the word but that's the way it is...Those types disgust me really...She doesn't even have respect for herself thinking that what would other people will say about her...Let's say that's her life so she has the prerogative of doing what she wants and what she's fond of doing or whatever but still the act is not appropriate for her to be doing it despite of the love and everything that the guy offers to her,she was indeed not contented...if I were the guy in the short story I would be happy and glad that finally I can be free from a dirty lady...He doesn't deserve her,honestly.
• Indonesia
4 Nov 09
i am a man can feel the feelings that she was probably the wrong way
• Canada
4 Nov 09
I think people should sleep with whom ever they want as long as it does not hurt their partners. People should be open minded to new things
@lynnemg (4536)
• United States
4 Nov 09
I think that wommen who sleep with many men are looking for something that they feel is missing in their life. They may appear to have it all, but somewhere, deep inside, they still have an empty place that they are trying to fill. I believe that most women want a stable andloving relationship with one man that they can spend their life with.
@lindiebiz (1013)
• Canada
4 Nov 09
Its the thing about life, just as we are different so also we have different orientation. This girl may not see things the way other girls who want a stable life does and in her opinion having different man will give her thw security she needs. Too bad she is on the wrong track.
@kezabelle (2984)
3 Nov 09
She sounds to me like she is just not ready to settle down with one man and no there is nothing wrong with that what he shouldnt have done is move in a with a man when she had those sorts of feelings that was wrong but we all make mistakes hopefuly she will learn from it and move on.
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
This may have something to do with her past. She may have come from a broken family and she might be blaming her father for that. If this is the case, then this will surely affect the way she treats men in her life.