Dream Help : What does this mean?

@SomeCowgirl (32189)
United States
November 3, 2009 11:40am CST
I guess before I tell you what my dream was, I should give you some background. Three of the people who were in this dream, I often refer to as "old friends", now I know most people might think these are just friends I lost touch with. No, we kind of ended our friendship a little rough, but nothing I regret too much. In any case, Here is the dream : My husband, his mother and I were at a grocery store, I'm thinking it was a Harris Teeter. We never go to Harris Teeter, in fact I think the last time we were at a Harris Teeter was when we went to spend the night with his mom at her bosses house who wanted her to house sit. In any case, in the dream we were at Harris Teeter. I think we had looked for something, but that part either wasn't in my dream, or wasn't something I remember. In any case, we were leaving the store when I saw three of my "old friends" (remember explanation of "old friends" above)they were in line from the friend I was the closest with, to the friend I'd known the longest, to the one that I didn't really talk to. The one I didn't really talk to was either in a hospital bed, or a wheelchair. Her leg was either up in the air in a cast like they do, or was just laying on the bed, or in the sitting position in the wheel chair. My hair was up in a bun, and so I touched the bun with my left hand, the hand that has the ring on it. the friend that was in the middle, the one who I said I'd known the longest, got out of line and ran over to me, and said she wanted to take pictures of the ring. I was hesitant at first, I looked at my husband and he gave me the "go ahead" look and nod. So she took pictures, and we started talking like old friends. That was pretty much when the dream ended. We had looked at their profiles yesterday, and then I dreamt this last night. My husband also told me this morning that he saw who he thought was another one of my old friends, who wasn't in this dream. I told him to start a discussion about that, but I don't know that he will or not. So what do you think of this dream? Is there anything you can tell me, like maybe why you feel I had this dream? If you need more information, don't hesitate to ask.
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@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
3 Nov 09
I am not good at this but one thing struck me. The old friend was in a cast or wheel chair. This could represent that your friendship was broken but you wanted her to know that you were now married. You notice that you didn't talk to this one but perhaps you want to be friends with the one you spoke to in your dream. I am not sure if any of this helps you in any way. Blessings
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
3 Nov 09
The One I spoke to in the dream was the one I had the worst falling out with, the one that was in the wheelchair or hospital bed was the one who I didn't even talk to, and hence didn't actually have a fight with at the end of our friendship, we just stopped talking to her. The one that I was the first in line, was the one that I was the closest friends with, she was the one who we suspect kept calling here. I guess it's all just weird.
@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
3 Nov 09
Do you want to be friends with them agan?
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
3 Nov 09
That sounds like a really weird dream,and you dream about them people a lot,and I think the dream is because you want them to see the ring,so you can rub it in their faces that you have succeeded where they probably never will,and maybe it has something to do with us looking at their profiles but I am not sure,and I bet if after so many years they will become just a memory since that would be better for everyone,and it seems like maybe none of them are friends anymore either,I love you.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
3 Nov 09
I feel bad about wanting to rub the ring in their faces, but I guess I am bitter about the way they treated us towards the end of our friendship. The fact is I don't remember a lot of what was said, but I do remember one of them calling the county we reside in a "hick county" I know that I changed a lot for them ,and when I met you and changed back to who I am they didn't seem to like it at all. I hope that one day they will just be a memory, and I think it's mostly the nosiness in me that wants to know more of how they are doing. I don't wish bad of them at all, in fact I wish they wouldn't have been the way they are, but I guess I just wish they'd change the way I did and still need to in some ways. I love you.
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• United States
4 Nov 09
I can understand that you feel bad,but you should not feel too bad because it is just pay back from the way they treated you and us,and I still do not like that our county was called hicktown,and it serves them right if you rub your ring in their faces since they will probably never get married,I love you.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Nov 09
I am by no means a dream analyst but it sounds like you have thought about your friends attending your wedding. Did you put a lot of thought in inviting them before hand? Did you invite them?
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
6 Nov 09
Oh they aren't my friends now. They were my friends when my husband and I were first talking about getting married.. The friendship ended badly.