will you give your children whatever he\her want ?

China
November 5, 2009 11:08am CST
hello~ mylotters ~ nomatter fot those who have already got children or not . will you give your children whatever he\her want ? i gotta say many parants are dote upon their children , maybe for the purpose of makeing the children have a happy chilhood , they might give their children whatever he\her want ,i think it's not bad to meet the needs from the children ,but my suggestion is that parents could make those things as a encouragement to their kids of make a progress on something ~so ,what's your opinions ~ my friends ~
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3 responses
• China
7 Nov 09
As a mother of a 13 months old baby, I gave him most things that he want. I think he is too small to be educated, I try to satisfy him everything, except some thing that are not good for him. I aware it's not good to give the kid everything he want. I think I get to be a little strict on him a few months later. Have a great day and happy mylotting.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
5 Nov 09
Nope, not at all. There are stuffs my children wants which doesn't make any logical explanation. They only wanted it just because their friends have one. Its not always right to give them anything they want. We parents knew this and should make a wise decision if does our children really needs the things she wanted to have. And sometimes, those things are very expensive, you know.
@dmrone (746)
• United States
5 Nov 09
Hi! As a parent i do not give my children everything they want. There is a difference between what they need and what they want, and it is different with every child. Every child has different needs and wants. To meet their needs is basic, but to give them everything they want is not. It is something a parent chooses to do. To make some of the things they want, as encouragements to do things such as grades better is a good idea. It encourages a child to do better, but i don't think a parent should give a child what they want all the time.