Have you ever tried to say I LOVE YOU to your worst enemy?

@rjvb26 (2518)
Philippines
November 6, 2009 2:11am CST
Have you tried that one? For me the word I LOVE YOU is a sacred word that means, i cannot just say those words or use those words normally even sarcastically. And never tried to say I LOVE YOU to my worst enemy! How bout you?
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9 responses
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
6 Nov 09
aahhh!!! it will be awkward for me if say that world to my ultimate enemy though they say love your enemy but it doesn't mean literally expressing it to your enemy...maybe i can still say express that word to a dog who bites me
@rjvb26 (2518)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
LOL! Better to say that word to a dog than an enemy human. Haha nice sense of humor! Thanks for the response.
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• Philippines
6 Nov 09
i have similar situation but it wasn't done with the dog but actually with the cat i used to take care of. she bite me somehow but i kept telling her that i love her despite of her hissing and growling, and slashing claws too then i leave her with the new owner
@hobegao (136)
• China
8 Nov 09
not at all,for someone who would say the words to one's enemy,most of us are not,at least i didn't do it before ,and i think i won't say it?
@rjvb26 (2518)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
Yes not all but for some reason they did, that's why it is very hard to trust people nowadays, we do not even know if they were telling the truth or not.
• India
6 Nov 09
yes i said i love you to my worst enemy as the hatred was driving me crazy. so i decided to forgive him for his misgivings and move on in life.but even after i said i forgive you i couldn't actually forgive him.i still had lot of negativity for him .once going through writings of a spiritual guru i found out a great quote...hate the vice and not the bad man ...then i decided that keeping aside all my feelings of hurt,hatred i will be telling him i love you...for i love him as a human being but hate his vices...thats how i told him i love you and he was surprised with my reaction.
@rjvb26 (2518)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
Wow! your such a great person and i admire you for that. Two thumbs up!
@SouravRC (247)
• India
6 Nov 09
No never. though I don't have any enemy so there's no scope of saying i love you to that person. But tell me if he/she is your enemy than why should you say I love you to him/her? What's the point?
@rjvb26 (2518)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
Uhm.. cause sometimes i saw some people fighting at the streets and tell his enemy i love you. Then i am shocked! He punch the guy then he tell that guy that he loves it. Damn, i don't know if he is just being sarcastic or whatever but damn. lol
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
7 Nov 09
say "I love you" to my enemy - It is impossible for me to say "I love you" to my enemy.
Even if facing my loved one, I won't say "I love you" in an easy manner. So, it is next to impossible for me to say "I love you". Likewise, even if I have said such the word to my worst enemy, I think he won't believe in what I have said. If I hate someone, I won't say a word with him all the time and he may have the same idea with me. Of course, if you want to patch up the bad relationship with others, you can have a try, it may be useful. No matter what happens, I won't choose to say "I love you" to my enemy.
@rjvb26 (2518)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
Thanks for your very transparent and honest response. You are very true to your self and it makes you a better person and a good person to be with.
@Susan33 (42)
• China
7 Nov 09
I just said these words to the one I really love.
@rjvb26 (2518)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
Wow! nicely responded!
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
hello rjvb, the only time i have seen something like that was in the movie my "super x gf"or something like that. in the later end scene the villian admitted to the girl that she's on-love with her but hated her for life because she left her and went out with another man and left him behind. but seriously, if the enemy is a guy NO WAY, you can negotiate or offer a truce but saying that is way off as if the enemy might think you're gay or something. if it's a girl, well it depends, probably stay away from her instead but not truce
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
6 Nov 09
Saying it to my worse enemy? No. It's pointless and would probably add insult to him/her because if that person is your worst enemy, it's likely he/she doesnt like you either and he/she might even think you're being sarcastic.
@jewel2 (27)
• United States
4 Dec 09
Those three little words I LOVE YOU mean so much and unless the feelings are truly there I can not just say them.