Built or casual

I look for body shape too, a fat man or a man out of shape is a man that doesn't love himself enough, one that lets go on many things, and definitely one that will never understand me, my training and my way of eating and living. A fat man talking great things isn't going to go out with me. A fit man saying normal things is going to go out with me. A fit man talking sutpid things isn't going to go out with me.

Hello, I would defenitly go for emotional stabilty than built. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 10 years for lack of emetions. He hardly ever said sorry and never bought a card for my birthday or Christmas. We never went on date if I tried to set one up he would fined excused not to show up. I realize now it lust on his part but I fell for him hard and he is the army so distance did not help. I always made excused why he never came over my house always had to be at his house. Yes, I bought him things for Christmas and cards for his birthday and after 3 years of not getting anything I stop doing it. Once in blue moon he would say he loved me I guess I kept taking the crumbs thinking it would change but never did. He would things for his god daughter and his sisters for birthdays and Christmas but never me. Very good question Unique16

whne i was young, i liked men who were built but now i would rather a man be casual and laid back. emotional is much more sexy than being built.