What if you have no words with your friend?

China
November 7, 2009 10:21pm CST
I have a good friend and I'd like to talk to her about everything,however I feel no willing to speak to her now.She felt sorry and I do not know why.Can you give me some suggestions or do you think I am stange?
4 responses
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
You an talk to your friend anytime because she is your friend.. The worst thing is if she doesn't want to talk to you in her own reason. You make friend to her /him again like the way you did before if you are friend before.. Try to be friendly with that person again.. have a nice day!
• China
8 Nov 09
Yes,anyway she is my best friend.
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
8 Nov 09
I guess there may be something wrong in the friendship with your friend. If you have no motivity to talk with your friend, don't worry about that and settle down for a while. As you have said above, you would like to talk to her about everything all the time, in my opinion, it is obvious that too much words between two friends mean a long pause then. Perhaps you should try to talk with her properly and then all things may return to normal. There are no a gap between you and your friend and I think you can deal with the relationship well. Wish you success.
• China
8 Nov 09
I had never thought about that it is not so good to talk too much,maybe we need keep silent sometimes to understand each other better.
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
8 Nov 09
Something must have happened for you to stop talking. Is this friend one who critizes you and you feel you are being judged when you tell her certain things? Do you do most of the talking and she just listens and maybe you need more feedback than she usually gives you? Do you think she is telling others about your private conversations? Do you sense that she is jealous of you in some way? Have you made another friend that you are more comfortable with? Only you know the answer. Search your heart and think hard. I don't think you are strange at all. Sometimes we block out things that are painful and we do not want to face them. I think you detected something in this friend that has made you back off of your friendship with her. If you can face it, you will feel better for your sake and her sake. Whatever it is, maybe you can work it out with her, or you may come to realize it is better to break off your friendship.
• China
8 Nov 09
I think you have a deep understanding of frendship.Yes,I seldom think about the reasons you said.Maybe there is always some subtle changes in my heart but I have not realized.Thank you for your suggestions.
@buping (952)
• China
24 Nov 09
hi susan, i do not know why it happened to you in this situation. i do not say much occasionally, but i like to talk with my friends, i like to talk with them. such as if i do not say a word in my office, but when i off duty to dinner with my friend, i would tallk with her at least 2 hours, and i do not feel tired. i think you need to adjust yourself to a good situation.