Would you sacrifice comfortable clothes just to look cute/beautiful?
By aixshaonline
@aixshaonline (600)
Philippines
November 8, 2009 1:09am CST
Recently, my girlfriends and I went out for lunch. Thinking it was just a typical day, I wore comfortable clothes: a cute shirt, jeans, and tennis shoes -- rugged and casual to say the very least. I was surprised when I went in the restaurant, 2 of my friends were all dressed up! I've never felt so dressed "down" in my entire life. Sounds funny, but I actually felt out of place. We had a friend who was running late, and I was wondering if she dressed up too as well. To my relief, she was also wearing the same outfit as I did, and we laughed as we were both wearing comfortable clothes.
On typical days, I like to wear comfortable clothes. But on days where there are special occasions, I try to dress up too, but sometimes, I still want to wear comfortable clothes. I remember one of my girlfriends said to me a long time ago when I was the one who felt uncomfortable for her choice of clothes, "Sacrifice comfort for cuteness!" I mean, you look good, but you're not enjoying too much, given the fact that you are uncomfortable. Hahahha. But I am guilty of it too at times, during formal parties and other parties as well 
How about you? Would you sacrifice comfort for cuteness? 
How about you? Would you sacrifice comfort for cuteness? 6 people like this
26 responses
@voldrox (7191)
• India
8 Nov 09
hi aixsha, i couldn't do that, i am better off with more comfortable wear, although i get into the trial room and see how i look, well too shabby isn't good either and so have to choose accordingly but i am not going to sacrifice even a small part of comfort just for looking very good, i want to have something that looks decent or say smart at times 
but yeah comfort and how you feel is the main thing...
but yeah comfort and how you feel is the main thing...
... eh lol@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
Hahahha Nice one!
Your honor, I shall appeal for a retrial!
Thanks for responding by the way. And happy MyLotting!
Nice one!
Your honor, I shall appeal for a retrial!
Thanks for responding by the way. And happy MyLotting!@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
Okay, being shabby is way out of the question! Hahaha..
Whoa, are you by chance a lawyer or something? You just mentioned trials...
In your case, I think it would really do good if you dressed up as it would mean a lot to the trial. I think it would exude confidence and readiness to tackle anything.
Whoa, are you by chance a lawyer or something? You just mentioned trials...
In your case, I think it would really do good if you dressed up as it would mean a lot to the trial. I think it would exude confidence and readiness to tackle anything. 1 person likes this
@yoninah55 (24)
• United States
8 Nov 09
I sacrifice comfort for cuteness any time I leave the house. Come on ladies, we are beautiful, let's flaunt it! We can stay comfortable in sweat pants in the comfort of our homes. There is nothing wrong with looking our best. Every woman--big, small, short or tall--is beautiful in their own way. Even if its just a little bit of gloss to accent your pretty lips slap it on honey!
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
Hi!
First of all, welcome to myLot!
I do so at times, but really not all the time. Only when time calls for it (dates included hahahaha . I like dressing up, but sometimes I think it just takes too much time to fix myself. Hahahah
Thanks for responding by the way! Happy myLotting!
I do so at times, but really not all the time. Only when time calls for it (dates included hahahaha . I like dressing up, but sometimes I think it just takes too much time to fix myself. Hahahah
Thanks for responding by the way! Happy myLotting!@yoninah55 (24)
• United States
10 Nov 09
Oh thank you so much for the friendly welcome! I understand it does take a long time to get ready sometimes. Here are some tips--if you know you want to look fantastic for your date tomorrow plan ahead. Get your outfit together the day before. Iron what needs to be ironed the night before. Make sure you have some eye-catching shoes to make all the other women around you think "Where did she get those heels from?" Pull out the combination of make up you are going to wear and get it ready in one space all together in the bathroom. You know that cherry red lipstick to match that cherry red dress of yours. That way once everything is together it is no longer a chore, but fun. It's like putting on your war makeup getting ready for a battle you already won. Okay yeah so that was a little dramatic but you get my point ;) Just have fun getting beautiful like the princess you are.
@Candid_Ishida (659)
• United States
9 Nov 09
Cuteness over Function!!
I would DEFINITELY wear uncomfortable clothes to make myself look better. I'm not saying I would do something extreme like wearing a corset and put myself in pain, but I think looking presentable is important.
It seems like it's too easy to drift from the realm of 'comfort' to just looking like a slob. I hate when I see people wearing sweatpants and pajamas in public! I wish everyone would take the time to wear something somewhat nice and put a bit of thought into their outfits, at the very least.
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I've worn sweatpants (that are really cute) to work before! Hahaha.. All of my jeans were either wet or just ironed, and I didn't want to make them all fade so quickly, so I resorted to wearing sweatpants. And my students didn't really mind seeing me in sweatpants. But as for pajamas, I think I can't imagine myself wearing them. Feels like you're simply wearing your knickers or something. hahahha
But of course, I take into consideration if my clothes are appropriate or not.
But of course, I take into consideration if my clothes are appropriate or not.
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
Simple answer: NEVER.
Im sure there are those who would suck up all the pain and discomfort just so they would look good and have perfect photos. Im just not one of them. I also prefer the kind of clothes that you wear: jeans, shirt, rubber shoes, Id add my backpack and a tribal necklace(aside from the wristwatch). That would be my day to day outfit, going to school or just walking around the city. I prefer to be comfortable with what I wear so I can be ready for anything. Kinda like being "on-the-go" cause Im never too sure when Ill be messaged saying I need to submit this, or am required to go to this place and get that or something.
Of course, there are situations where in I have to sacrifice my own comfort, but not because of being cute, but because the situation calls for it. Like you mentioned a formal dinner, I certainly couldnt attend that wearing my daily getup.
As a rule of thumb for me: Ill wear jeans and rubber shoes whenever possible, if not, resort to slacks and high cut boots.
That's just me anyways.^_^
Im sure there are those who would suck up all the pain and discomfort just so they would look good and have perfect photos. Im just not one of them. I also prefer the kind of clothes that you wear: jeans, shirt, rubber shoes, Id add my backpack and a tribal necklace(aside from the wristwatch). That would be my day to day outfit, going to school or just walking around the city. I prefer to be comfortable with what I wear so I can be ready for anything. Kinda like being "on-the-go" cause Im never too sure when Ill be messaged saying I need to submit this, or am required to go to this place and get that or something.
Of course, there are situations where in I have to sacrifice my own comfort, but not because of being cute, but because the situation calls for it. Like you mentioned a formal dinner, I certainly couldnt attend that wearing my daily getup.
As a rule of thumb for me: Ill wear jeans and rubber shoes whenever possible, if not, resort to slacks and high cut boots.
That's just me anyways.^_^@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
Since I live in a tropical country, the weather's a bit "moody" if you asked me. It would be really hot, then suddenly, it would rain. I wouldn't want to be caught wearing slippers or high heeled shoes during these times! Hahahah I once tried wearing high-heeled shoes for the fun of it. But it seemed the weather scorned my wearing them, and it rained so hard, I had a hard time walking.
Hooray for jeans, shirts, and rubber shoes! Hahahaha
I once tried wearing high-heeled shoes for the fun of it. But it seemed the weather scorned my wearing them, and it rained so hard, I had a hard time walking.
Hooray for jeans, shirts, and rubber shoes! Hahahaha1 person likes this
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I think we live in the same country, and yeah I totally agree with the high heels thing. I was actually required to wear them at a corporate event, but of course I had tricks up my sleeve that I was able to avoid wearing them altogether.
Hooray to that!
Hooray to that!
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
8 Nov 09
For me, it is next to impossible to sacrifice comfortable clothes just in order to look cute.
Compared with looks, it is obvious that comfort is more important and practical. It is common that there are lots of people who are dressed up just for good appearance. In fact, the outer beauty is transitory, but the inner virtue is lasting. If one is beautiful in heart, they will look beautiful even if they are wearing comfortable clothes.
It is an unwise action to sacrifice comfortable clothes just to look cute. It will never be happen to me.
@syndrix (475)
• Malaysia
8 Nov 09
Well for me, if for example i am the son of the president of the United States why not sacrifice Levis501 just to make it cute. Hehehe. But if you are just an ordinary person then i think or even not an ordinary person it is not good to sacrifice a clothes just to make it cute.
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I liked how you said "If one is beautiful in heart, they will look beautiful even if they are wearing comfortable clothes". I wouldn't like to spend the whole day wearing very uncomfortable clothes.
@kush20006 (515)
• India
8 Nov 09
comfort makes you look much smarter in talks
this helps in you being comfortable at that place and talk meaning ful otherwise you would always try to seek comments from other on your way of dressing
just get relied and enjoy its party time yaaaar!!!!!! lolz
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I really don't care what other people think of what I wear.. I think? Hahaha.. But I do get conscious at times when I feel overdressed or underdressed 
@kush20006 (515)
• India
9 Nov 09
hi aixsh
whatever you may think but tell me dressing is only necessary when you have to show off
if you are at ground potential how will anything affect you!
@msedge (4011)
• United States
8 Nov 09
It depends what kind of day it is and the weather should be considered too.During special occasions i have to wear something special also but i make sure i feel comfortable of what i am wearing.I wear jeans and shoes most of the times.And if its summer i definitely in a very comfortable clothes.Like shorts,sleeveless tops and just flipflops.
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
You are the first one that talked about weather! I soooo agree with you! I wouldn't want to be caught wearing a skirt on a windy day, and high-heeled shoes when it's raining. I think it would be pretty embarrassing if I did. Hahahaha !
As for summer, the apparel should really coincide with the temperature! Something cool and cotton perhaps
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As for summer, the apparel should really coincide with the temperature! Something cool and cotton perhaps 
@kindy198636 (471)
• China
9 Nov 09
Hi, for me sometimes I will sacrifice comfortable clothes, when I have a date or have some special things, I will dress up and make myself look cute, when I at home I will always choose comfortable clothes, but I always sacrifice comfortable shoes, I love high-heeled shoes, and I love the feeling that I wear them, so when I go to a date or a dinner, I will always choose high-heeled shes, they make me confidence.
, when I at home I will always choose comfortable clothes, but I always sacrifice comfortable shoes, I love high-heeled shoes, and I love the feeling that I wear them, so when I go to a date or a dinner, I will always choose high-heeled shes, they make me confidence.@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I do too at times. But sometimes the strain on my feet are just too much. I wouldn't want to be seen struggling to walk in them due to exhaustion. Hahaha .
And taking off the shoes comes as a last resort for me!
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And taking off the shoes comes as a last resort for me! @mommaj (23112)
• United States
8 Nov 09
Once you are older and married you usually wear comfortable, SENSIBLE, clothes. Even your dress up clothes are comfortable, just in case you have to be in them longer than expected. LOL I think comfort can be "cute" so you don't have to sacrifice either if you want to be "cute".
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I agree! I wouldn't want to spend more than 8 hours in very very very uncomfortable clothes! Yeah, I think comfortable is cute too!
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I would not sacrifice comfort for fashion. And who says you can't look fashionable without being comfortable at the same time? There are lots of clothes that are both fashionable and comfortable. You just need to look for them. But if I can't really find these types of clothes then I would just settle for a simple look.
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
Presentable, comfortable, and yet fashionable! I like that! 
I agree. Being comfortable (but not on the verge of looking shabby) is good!
Thanks for commenting and happy myLotting!
I agree. Being comfortable (but not on the verge of looking shabby) is good!
Thanks for commenting and happy myLotting!1 person likes this
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
8 Nov 09
If the time calls for it yes I would. Only if I am going out or wanting to impress people. when just around the house that is a way different story. I can also be seen at the gas station and in walmart looking pretty comfortable lol. Great discussion.
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I can't imagine myself wearing fashionable clothes while I'm only at home! I'd feel like Mariah Carey or something. Hahahahha!! Not that I have anything against her, but she was the first person that came into my mind.
You have a point. If there comes a time when I have to dress up, I would. I still know how to after all
Not that I have anything against her, but she was the first person that came into my mind.
You have a point. If there comes a time when I have to dress up, I would. I still know how to after all 
@checkmail (2039)
• India
8 Nov 09
Hello aixshaonline this is checkmail and often do think about peoples who try to be more fashionable even if they are uncomfotable or not matching the modern clothes.In mine case I would rather prefer more of comfortable clothes for any occasion and tradition, as clothes are for giving us some comfort.So there is no reason to sarifice our comfot fo it.Yeah you may get weight loss thing, or weight some to fit the new modern clothes if crazily desired.
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
Fashion tends to repeat itself in the future. I think it would be wiser to keep some old clothes (only the ones that still look new? hehehe) for future use. That's just my opinion though .
Thanks for responding! Happy MyLotting!
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Thanks for responding! Happy MyLotting!
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I am not that brand conscious too. I even buy in thrift stores, but still manage to carry myself well.
Thanks for responding and happy myLotting!
Thanks for responding and happy myLotting! @Joseph_Ryuki (90)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
well wearing comfortable clothes make one look beautiful and cute as you say because what's important is how you handle yourself and also to look cute and beautiful you have to be cool and comfortable of course there are events or parties that may require some formal or informal type of wear but usually it's better to wear clothes where you feel comfortable.
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I agree! It's the way you carry yourself is what matters
Thanks for commenting and happy myLotting!
Thanks for commenting and happy myLotting! 
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
16 Nov 09
I like to look nice as much as the next person but I also like to be comfortable. Some days I am not in the mood to put on anything more fancy than sweats.
@yolanda19191 (1934)
• China
10 Nov 09
in fact, i prefer to wear for comfort.
i do feel strange they dressed up on weekends. even when having party or eating with friends. i only dress up when in the office, or other official occasions. otherwise, i'd like to wear my comfortable clothes.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
8 Nov 09
Clothes? No. Shoes, Yes.
I actually am not fond of wearing pumps or high heels but sometimes because of my job, I have to look good and presentable. Then I have to have shoes that match my outfit and sometimes, the shoes aren't exactly comfortable.
As for clothes, I don't recall ever wearing something uncomfortable just to look cute. I think if I don't feel comfortable then I don't look cute because it's not just the clothes itself that should look good. If you're not comfortable, you can't carry it well, so then, to me, you won't look that good. The clothes may look nice but it probably won't look good on you.
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I like looking at high-heeled shoes, but I'm not too fond of wearing them either. Though I want to at times, the strain is sometimes just too much. I do agree with you! If you feel uncomfortable, you won't be able to carry the clothes that well.
@Picquarian (724)
• United States
17 Nov 09
I've been there and done that. Dressing to look cute, but being extemely uncomfortable made me miserable! Then I went complete opposite and dressed too comfortable (sweatpants and t-shirts 24/7). That's embarrassing thinking back to it because I probably looked like a complete slob. I've found a middle ground that I like. I buy clothes that are cute, but still allow me to feel comfortable. I think that there is a balance between the two.
@amshugonchikar (169)
• India
10 Nov 09
Hmmmm... I can understand your problem but I never really faced that problem as I feel comfortable in any type of clothing and I prefer mostly the formal wear. So I don't wear casual wear unless I had to and there is an occasion. So this has not been a problem for me. If at all it becomes a problem, I will chose to wear clothes depending on the occasion and the time I have to be in that clothing. I can sacrifice comfort for cuteness but not for a very long time.
@ningmeng (8)
• China
10 Nov 09
Sometimes I will sacrify comfortable for looking professional just for business occassion.During the work time,I didn't have to work professional.Most of the time I like to work casually since my company didn't have this kind of request.But sometimes I was empowered to go out to cooperate and do business with other companies or institutions,I have to dress professional for this formal occassion.Unluckily,in my view most of my formal dress is tight,wearing tight made me uncomfortable.And compare to the casual dress,formal dress will give me the hint that I work under pressure.
