Would you date a lady in twenties who had a invetro baby with a guy who is old?

@unique16 (1531)
United States
November 8, 2009 2:54pm CST
Hello I was wondering based on my previous question would you date a lady in her twenties like 22 years old who had a baby by invetro semination with a guy who is in 40's and they were not married but lived together so the father could be close to the baby? But she is not in love with the father. All she wanted was to be a Mother Thanks Unique16
3 responses
• Malta
8 Nov 09
Noo way!
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
9 Nov 09
Hi, Thank you for your response. I just I am finding people in general have lost there values and that anythings goes as long as you have the money you get anything you want. I also wonder male or female when you date people it not nice ask if the there children are done by articial insemenation etc... and how many of us ask to get a medical check up before you sleep with them to make sure they do not have STD or Aids etc... I only had one guy who wante to see that I was free from those things out like 20 of meet and greets. I thought it showed he care about me and and himself. I quess this maybe my next question. Thanks for the response and have a great day Sincerely Unique16
• Malta
9 Nov 09
Definitely, Invetro babies should only be the last option of a relationship complication if the man is sterile. If the woman can think straight, why not wait for the right person to make the baby with. How does a woman pretend to have a husband to take care of a baby that doesn't even know who his father is. And the worst of all.. Is it fair on the child?
@tdemex (3545)
• United States
8 Nov 09
You must be a repulican? right! LOL! got your nose right in there! tdemex
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
8 Nov 09
It does not matter if I am republican or democrat. I believe in values and morals should taught as children and in college. These actress make our children think this is correct way to live which is not. Most children come from poor families and think this quick way to make a buck/ money. Taking care of children is hard work and can be messy and tough and takes money and lots of it. They think this child will love them back or make up for the what the parents did not give them. Love comes from inside of the person not from out side resources. Thank you for response have a great night Unique16
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@tdemex (3545)
• United States
8 Nov 09
Well I don't want you pushing your values on me! That's why when you knock on my door on Sundays I don't answer! I'm old enough to know what I like and don't like and it was a free country, at least last time I looked! Did this change? Sorry I got in to the wrong interest section I've been warned about the bible thumper interest and never been here before! Next time I'll know better! Again I'm sorry don't lower my star please! Please! tdemex
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
8 Nov 09
Probably not! but then I'm not so into women! Depends how much i loved her to be honest. Though i'm trying to understand why she got with someone, had a baby with him, and he still wants to play a part in his childs life. Thats.. strange, though commendable i'll admit!
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
9 Nov 09
Hi More on this is that he wanted a lady to carry his baby and she got paid for doing it. Money talks. He could not fined any lady among his friend to carry his baby and the one was married and the husband refused. So there is movement for men to have babies on there own now: just like ladies. I am finding as from dating that there more and more families who have children by articiail insemenation. I mean it is ok as long both were married prior to having children... I am just worried there are those people who want children with there own blood running them without a relationship... it seem it younger crowd that want this. Remember the lady in January who had 6 children already and then wanted one more but she ended up with 8 children from one sperm etc... But you see lots of older men amrrying younger women because they do not have children yet and then have children. Thanks and have a great day Sincerely Unique16