Is it worth keeping the marriage?

When it first starts, you have to sit down and talk. If it's late night, then it's late night. When he or she comes home to go to bed, tell that person to get home early tomorrow because we have a problem. Or word it however you want to. But let them know if they don't get home tomorrow, then we will talk about it when you do get home. Then, if the person doesn't respond, then I would think start deivorce proceedings. Maybe that will spark his or her attention. And if then he or she does respond, don't say No, it's too late, you had your chance. Sometimes, a wake up call could start a great new relationship. If not, then leave. That's what I would do.

Find time to talk with your spouse and tell him everything that you feel see to it you can make him assure you that he will give time to your family. If it will not work maybe its not worth keeping the marriage you must move on.