Sometimes we feel completely depressed how much optimistic we are how can we....

Its not the optimistic view point that is taking people into depression. Its the fact that in the back of their mind they say "I'm an optimistic person, everything will be okay" but they never make the changes or take the chances to make "everything okay". I've been overly optimistic in a lot of crappy situations... and amaizingly, everything did become OK... but it took a lot of work to get me there. Just because you're optimistic doesn't mean you don't have the right to stress out or freak out from time to time. My Mom always reminds me in crappy situations of how strong I am and how I can get thru anything - and that reminds me to stay optimistic... but the situation at hand still needs dealt with. Maybe you need something else to fill that liesure time at home. Make some rinky dink little crafts and sell them on ebay - find stuff in your house to post on ebay, get a piano/keyboard and learn how to play, get a new crossword puzzle book. Anything that will bring some sort of joy in your life. Since I don't know your age or reasoning that you have so much liesure time at home... I guess I can't really say too much more at the moment... maybe fill me in a bit more? Thanks

We have a similar situation but right now I'm divert my attention to some other things so I would not think my problems always. It makes you more depressed if you always feel lonely. Try to do other things to make you busy. If you always thinking your failure in the past the more you can't get out in your situation right now.

hey i think you are just bored with your life. dont be. me , i did not get all of my dreams, but as what my mom said "life is what you make it" so help yourself! go out have friends, spend time with a hobby you love most and BE HAPPY! =)