Love, Don't Leave Me

If you love someone, its really difficult to say you want to keep it or leave it. You control your mind of thinking about him/her. When you are angry, you will decide to leave him/her. After that, you start to miss it, you will think of him/her all the time and getting heartache. For me, I can't manage to leave him myself unless he wants to leave me.

Everything is up to you what's the best thing to do. But loving someone is not only loving the good side of him but loving the worst nightmare of his attitude. As the Corinthians says loving is not keeping the record of wrong. Forgiving is 70 x 7 outstretch you patience give an unconditional love. For your info there are other people who has a worst situation than you. Remember regret always come out in the end & we never realize how important the person is until he is gone & we realize that its too late to have him back for too much damage has been done.

For me, I have this "feeling" when a relationship has run its course. There's a dread of hopelessness and a feeling of being so emotionally drained that I don't want to continue anymore. Relationships take more than just love. You can't keep a relationship just because of love alone. There has to be more to it. My reason to stay would be love, of course, but if I was no longer happy, then I'd rather leave. Sometimes, you can love a person but then, sometimes you just end up becoming unhappy because of things that happen. Whether I'm willing to take it or not falls on whether I think the relationship is still worth fighting for.

I am in a relationship right now and I can say that I am lucky for having him. We rarely have a problem because he really sees to it that I am happy. Though of course, before I had him I've been to different relatinships as well.. When I met my first boyfriend I tought we would last forever so no matter what he does to hurt me I still forgive him but I finally said to myself "I have to let him go" when that guy started to stop fighting for our love.. It's been mellow dramatic..LOL!! but its true. You can't fight for someone who can't fight along with you..

hi It dosen't make any difference what love gives us pain or happines,if we got it we are so lucky,but condition is that it should be true. I am one of them who got true love in life. we love each other truly and ready for any kind of sacrify, pain or may be for lots of happiness [:)]

It is Not possible to find true love these times, many times it is fake, life is limited, everyone wants his own interest to pass time, even, this person can do love for money, Blind love is now past story, World is very fast, It is difficult to survive be neglecting our interest.

Hi eureka! The basic question hidden in this discussion is somewhat similar to the question, which you asked in your other post today. You see it is said – ‘either change the circumstances, or if you cannot, ‘accept’ the circumstances’. It is for the persons who are in a relationship to explore, whether they are willing to accept each other ‘as they are’. Please remember that we all have our positive and negative traits and no one is perfect (we ourselves are not perfect). It will, therefore, be a futile exercise to expect a perfect behavior from our partner(s) (though in our hearts of heart, we always wish that our partner should behave in the manner we want). If the water is flowing above the danger mark, then it would be better to get out of the relationship, once you have exhausted all channels of communication and patch up.

YOur so lucky u found ur real love unlike others they still longing to be love. To love is to be hurt, the possible of being hurt is so high and just the same equal amount it felt with happiness when ur in love. Pain is a big part of love. Keep the one that you love.. endure the pain as well as the happy moments..

Hi, eurekafemme, like you said, I am so lucky for I have found the right one who is my lover, you see, he also loves me so much. But sometimes, we can not prevent from quarrelling. Well, I do not know why, why we love each other, there the hurts still exists. I feel a little tired about that. I have no idea whether this love can remain till the last second of our life.

i would say that i should end up a relationship when the person i'm loving to chooses to be let go by or if i can feel that i'm no longer happy with our relationship especially when i'm no longer the same person that i used to be because of that certain person. but i'm lucky enough that i was able to find a man who's very in love to me right now and i hope that it'll last for a lifetime...

Loved happiness,so cherish , fell in love with a responsibility ,so courageous commitment to love

Yes it is really our luck to find a true love in life and most of us is unlucky but if you are understanding and flexible is no problem. If you stand rigid to your opinion and neglect your lover's voice or vice-versa then definitely is a problem. One thing to remember : Love mixes 2 souls to 1 - all goes fine till you try to find which 1. Understand your needs as well as your your lover's needs -- everything will be fine

yeah , sometimes in life it may happen , that misundersatnding can take place between youa nd your lover, but , do't break your heart , and don't think thatthis is it , if you really loved someone than , offcourse theer would be something in him, which you loved a lot........so just don't let him go away........give him another chace , and surely , everything will be fine one day.............