Married to a b*tch

Canada
November 10, 2009 4:49pm CST
What if the person you married turned out to be a b*tch? What if she keeps hurting you over and over again? What if the only reason you keep staying is because you don't want to deny your kids a family? Should I just give up? And damn them all?
5 responses
• United States
10 Nov 09
I was happy when my parents divorced I was so glad not to be woken up in the middle of the night by yelling and screaming. Kids are very sensitve to these sorts of things even if you think you are doing a good job of hiding it I bet they sense the tension between the 2 of you. I don't think getting a divorce is damning them all. Lose the B*%$# I'm sure you will be happier in the long run.
• Canada
10 Nov 09
I think you're right about the kids being sensitive. On a good day, the kids seem to be extremely happy. Maybe they are happy that there is no arguments going on.
@smedtra (77)
• Turkey
10 Nov 09
You should not damn your children of course. And you must break up with your wife for sake of them. I believe being raised in such an unhappy enviorement would be worse from being raised by seperated mother/father.
• Canada
10 Nov 09
Thanks for the advice! Of course I don't want to damn my kids. Sometimes, it's just so f*%$ing hard! I just want to get away!
@max1950 (2306)
• United States
10 Nov 09
what ? your still there ? over and over again ? dump that b!tch fast, but be sure to take care of your children, their yours !!!! and if you dont take responsability for them your a scumbag, its not their fault you and the b!tch didnt make it. kids are resilient, they'll bounce back but they " need " a father. good luck.
@earth2jacq (1498)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
In my opinion, you should not stay just because you want the kids to have a whole family. Think about what the effect the b*tch would have on the kids in the long run. Think about what the environment will the kids grow up to if they see you being hurt everytime. I think you should get out of the relationship and get your kids. Raise them yourself. I think a b*tch is not capable of setting good values to the children.
@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
I think you should give your wife a chance. Try to talk it out what is bothering your relationship. Look for reasons why you loved and married that woman for the sake of your kids. I don't think you married her for just any reason. Because of divorce, people tend to devalue marriages so I really think you should give her another chance.