confused!!started hating girls suggest me a suitable remedy
By greensignal
@greensignal (23)
India
November 11, 2009 9:57am CST
I usually dont talk to girls but a girl approached me, she is my classmate and she started the conversation ,we developed a good friendship.I had crush on her,it went for few months suddenly she started neglecting me for no reason and stoped speaking to me when i approach her she moved away .she was my only friend among girls .It hurted me a lot so i decided no more girls here after.I usually listen to lot of songs,the problem starts here,When i listen to sad songs it hurts and when listen to a romantic number it makes me feel lonely but i cant stop listening to songs so suggest me a suitable solution to solve this
1 response
@1starrynite (186)
• United States
11 Nov 09
Maybe you should try to figure out why she is acting that way. I don't know, but it could be a possibility that she's had too much of you, or just her mind changed. Every girl is different.
Some suggestions could be to look on the brighter side of life. For the romantic and sad songs, appreciate music itself for making you able to feel! If it is very painful, then go over the good things in life. If you have no where to start, then I suggest starting with: I appreciate life. What else do you appreciate? Because if you didn't appreciate life, then why would you still be living?
Anther thing is to forgive, forget, and move on. Forgive her actions, forget them, and learn to move on, because life is too short. It doesn't mean to say that everything is but a dream, but to accept and live as a reality and make the best of everything while you still have your life.
I hope this helps, and hope you will meet a better girl =)
