Okay, hear my story and give me your opinion on this...

By Link
United States
November 11, 2009 11:40pm CST
So I was driving in the car with my mum and sister. My sister notices that someone's license plate said they were an organ donor. My sister said she is going to donate her organs when she dies, my mum (who just got really into being religious a few years ago) said she would not. I asked her why and she said it was because she might need her organs in heaven. Now I am not Christian and I do not belittle the faith. I have knowledge of many religions and also I believe in the fact that no matter what we all believe in, we just do not know for sure. We can BELIEVE for sure, and have FAITH in what we believe in, but as far as proof, there is none (and please don't tell me any religious texts are proof because they really aren't). Now, I told her she wouldn't need them because it is just your spirit that goes to heaven, not your body. She told me that she would want her body all together if she went to heaven so she could see God. I then told her you can't see God. She said, you do not know that. I said, I know, but you don't know there even really is heaven. So really my thing is, it is a roundabout argument. She is worried about herself after she dies, her spirit, her energy, her essence, whatever, not being "complete" when in fact our spirits (in my belief) don't necessarily have a shape, or eyes, or hearts or mouth. Ghosts can appear in the shapes they did before, but they don't need to, they are just energy, they just ARE. You know? So, my mum would rather not donate organs from her dead body to help those who are still living because she is worried that her ethereal or energy or spirit body won't have those organs (she said she wanted to have her eyes so she could see God), yet in most beliefs there is not need for those sorts of things, which is why it is considered a spirit or energy, and the body considered a vessel. Anyway, I dropped the conversation since it was a no-win situation since everything can be halted with the fact that we just do not know for sure. I still think she is being a bit greedy by trying to keep her organs in a body she would no longer need, but whatever its hers. Anyway, my thing is, what do you think about that? Or do you just accept the fact that we just don't know for sure and we can all believe what we want and be happy until we find out? I accept the fact that we don't know, and everyone can believe in what they want, I don't care, but I just found it odd that she would think her body would need organs for her soul to have them (especially since when I was little she told me that when someone who has a problem like who is blind, or handicap etc. dies and goes to heaven that they are whole and better again, but of course this could just be another religious fairytale of sorts since we just don't know). Please no belittling or rude comments, no "Jesus/God is the truth" or anything like that, just your opinions on what I wrote.
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9 responses
• India
12 Nov 09
Hello everyone I think that donating your organs is at no 1 position in the list of "things to do after you die". This is not only sacred deed but you can make someone's life by it. For example by donating your eyes you can help someone see this beautiful world. Also you can leave your last sign on this planet by this type of charity. Now about your mother. I think that she is surely afraid to die or talking about donating her organs to others.She may think why should I give my organs to others? What she will do without them? She has drilled some bad thoughts like this deep into her mind. The time has cure for every disease. Any way you do donate your organs and also encourage your sister and mother to do the same. Good Luck Happy mylotting.
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@hexeduser22 (7253)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
I believe your mom is faithful and you say she's a christian. It's really good for her to believe and have faith but she's a bit misinformed or did she just took the bible literally. She needs to be guided, it's not bad for her to believe in that way but she must understand what she is trying to believe
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@EvanHunter (4026)
• United States
17 Nov 09
I am christian and no I don't plan on having the same body after the day of resurrection, a lot of people think that when the day of resurrection comes they will be like Lazarus rising from their graves but Jesus said when asked by the Sadducee in "Matthew 22:30 For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven", I take this to mean we wont have the same bodies we have now.
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Well, you couldn't really say that your right also about spirits or energy having no shape because I think those descriptions came from text that man made. I couldn't also give my opinion because I'm a Christian and my answers would be coming from the Bible and my belief from God. Happy mylotting!
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@murderistic (2278)
• United States
14 Nov 09
I can relate to your mom. When I was younger I felt like it just wouldn't be right having part of my body inside someone else. But you know what? I don't think that God would want His children to suffer from preventable causes. We'll all turn to ash and dust in the end anyway.
@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
12 Nov 09
A thought just occured to me, when you die and go to heaven how come your body is in the morgue and after a while is burried and remains there forever even when it becomes a skeleton. The point I would like to make is this, our body does not go to heaven but our spirit our bodies rot in the grave. God is spirit and he does not deal with our body but spirit.
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• United States
12 Nov 09
I think like one of the other posters stated I think this is an argument that will never be won. I think you just need to settle in your heart and mind what is right for you. I know in my house growing up we had on going discussions on whether there will be animals in heaven. My father was adimit they would not be and I was admit they would be. Both of us has scriptures from the Bible that backed our belief and we finally came to the conclusion we would not know till we get there. ALl that to say I think you need to decide in your heart what you think is right on this matter and let your mother believe what she thinks is right and when you get before God neither of them will matter because of where you are and the disagreement will be long forgotten
• United States
13 Nov 09
If she is coming from a Christian point of view (I don't think you specified, did you?) then that is not the Christian belief anyway - we believe that you no longer need your earthly physical body, as you said, but that the body we have in 'Heaven' is a new one (and no one really knows what form that takes anyway!) But regardless of religious belief, if you dig up a grave (not recommended, but you know, for the same of this....lol) the body is still there, right? So, if it IS true that we go to Heaven, or whatever form your belief takes, then its not our bodies anyway, but I guess our soul, or spirit or essence. So we certainly won't need our organs. I, as I said, am a Christian who believes in 'life after' and all that, and I have absolutely no problem being an organ donor, let someone else get the benefit of the bits of me that still work, I say, it could save someones life. Anyway, I have arthritis and diabetes, Lord knows I don't want to take THIS body with me, I'll be well rid of it!....lol
• Malaysia
13 Nov 09
in my opinion, this body is just a equipment that we use to upgrade our spirits. We do good things that help people to make our spirit complete. This body is just temporary, if we want to donate organ for those who needed, i think is great cos this is the last good thing we do before we go.