A person doesn't have to be perfect to be exactly what you need

Apparently, the best for us isn't always the one we want, and most of the time the perfect one isn't always the best for us :) I believe we can try to pick the ones we see perfect and later on find out that they weren't exactly what we wanted them to be, but life's crossroad would always give us the option to find and stick with the person who would be very much needed and not just wanted.

When it comes to the rlationship and love, to be honest, I am not a picky person completely. In my eyes, it is unnecessary for people to be so picky when you have fallen in love with others. As the saying goes, "Gold can't be pure and man can't be perfect", everyone makes mistakes. If you pay much attention to one's mistakes instead of advantages, then you will find it difficult to look for a perfect person. In fact, if you want to keep a steady relationship with your love, understanding is the most important factor to enjoy a better life with your partner. When meeting some differences, a couple should try to communicate with each other, which is very useful to a long realtionship.

I am a picky person because I dont want to make a mistake especially when it comes to especially marriage.I must admit that sometimes I am way too picky but I make no apologies when it comes to that because I am really serious about my relationships.I would hate to start a relationship and then find out that that person was not what I expected .I admit that no one is perfect and niether am I but like I say everyone has the choice and if they dont think that I am waht they want then they can find that person who is meant for them,we all have that choice and we should not feel bad for excercising this choice

If I would like for someone he would have to be perfect! In looks,intelligence,and everything else! I can't date just anyone! I have been taken advantage of before because I do,sometimes,act gullible! If the man isn't perfect there is no resaon to be with that person! I can't take the chance! I have been taken advantage of way to many people! It just isn't with dating! It is in very put of my life! I can't afford to let my self be taken advantage of,even though I try not to be! I would go backward mentally and I should don't want that! So I will be alone for the rest of my life! I'm not proud of it but it is the only way!

I'm not a picky person and I don't mind if my partner is not perfect. I love him despite of his some bad attitude, clumsiness and being stupid sometimes. Maybe that is the reasons why I love him more because I saw how he tries to change his self for me.

I agree. I don't think anyone's perfect, but that's not really important. What matters is whether (or not) the person you choose to share your life with is perfect for you. Others would no doubt find flaws in my partner, just as they would find flaws in myself. But I love her with all my heart, and that love overrides any niggling doubts about her cheering for the Gooners...

This is a nice discussion, thank you for starting it. It really puts things into perspective. Some people won't settle until they find "the perfect one", and as a result, they end up alone because they're standards are too high. Everyone has flaws, and that's important to understand. It's nice that you've come to terms with your beau and his flaws.