could a chat mate be true in promising a plane ticket?

November 12, 2009 8:37pm CST
i have this chat mate who asked me to come in his place to tour. the idea is great because he is in turkey but i don't know if his kidding or not.
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6 responses
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
Im sure not all of you would believe if your chatmate promise to come and visit you.. But believe me, my crush chat mate would really visit me here in Philippines this December 1, 2009.. He's from Germany.. At first, I couldnt believe but he showed me a ticket.. and its all for real... Im so excited to see him... its my first chatmate who will visit me here... :)
13 Nov 09
wow good for you. i hope to find one someday.
• United States
13 Nov 09
I do apologize for being bold, but there should be a few questions to ask yourself before accepting his invitation to come see you. Why is he coming? What are his intentions? Does any of your friends and family know this person is traveling to see you? How long have you been chatting? How old is the person? Please think about this carefully, meeting people like this is extremely dangerous. Be safe.
• India
13 Nov 09
i'm fully agreed with slewis77. before confirming him, you need to be clear every thing, what question arising by slewis77, its really wise question. it will make you determine that you will be willing to meet with him or not. as a man i can say, basically men love women and maximum time physically,when its come from chat or net. but i hope in you, not will be that, he have no intention to have drive with you. but again, check him wisely, be sure and clear what he want actually and why he want come so far ?
@cream97 (29164)
• United States
17 Sep 10
Hi. cutepink_13. If I was you, I would not just believe anything that he says. He may be just lying to you to lead you on. With people being this far away, it is best to just not take their word for just anything. I would not meet up with a stranger that I know nothing about.
15 Nov 09
no no people would be crazy enough to give you tickets right away that easy, you better know the person more personally rather than trusting easily.
• India
13 Nov 09
to me it not impossible some time and some where. from my own experience i can say every chat friend or net friend or phone friend are not stranger or harmful. but very little amount of people are really so true, kind and care friendship or relationship, very much. in my life i got few friend ( all are women) , who are really help full and kind to me. before we met face to face some them support me financially to, not with little amount, it was big as like as above 500 USD. anyway, before allow your chat friend to visit and meet with you be confirm whats his vision and intention. need to be clear, what he want actually. if you are a girl and may he like to invite you stay with him at hotel. i thought you got my point, what i ant to say. i don't think he will be harmful to you, but there is 90% possibility that he do love to have extra pleasure with you.
@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
13 Nov 09
I would simply ask! Of course I would make sure that such a ticket is valid and legit, but even so I would first ask if he is serious. Now Also I would be weary to whom I was going to visit especially in a foreign country. Do you speak the language of the Turks?
@Slewis77 (47)
• United States
13 Nov 09
Be very careful. Many promises are made to women by men over the web. The person promising the plane most likely has another agenda in mind. Also, if you are questioning his integrity then you do not know him enough to even get on that plane. Be safe and stay home with your family.