Personal Marriage Problems...

@nhagen (30)
United States
November 13, 2009 11:02am CST
Hi, I am a newly wed (I have been married for 6 months) and my husband and I get along great. I was wondering what kinds of marriage problems might come up? If you have been married for a long time or have seen first hand what some of the problems are in a marriage I would like to know to be more prepared when the problem might come up. The kinds of problems I am talking about are not little pesky fights, but actual problems. Please let me know.. Thanks!
1 response
@raynejasper (2324)
• Philippines
14 Nov 09
.. a big problem comes in when you stop trusting each other.. I mean sometimes, husbands meet other girls and become his friends and there are times that they spend times together.. this is where your trust to him will be challenged.. and if your trust is weak and you feel jealous, you can ruin your relationship as husband and wife.. financial matter also is one.. this is one reason why many families are broken.. husband and wife divorce because they have different ways of using money.. other fights arises between a husband and wife when in-laws of both sides tries to meddle with your decisions.. there are lots but you can overcome them if your love and trust will always prevail.. nothing will come up that could ruin your relationship if both will work together to preserve the partnership..
@nhagen (30)
• United States
16 Nov 09
Thanks for the advice! I think it will help a lot. I know that my parents divorced based on their different views of money as well as some trust issues...not necessarily with other people, but just telling the truth. I believe that if I take your advice and use it, there wont be too many fights in the future - and no big ones. My mom always told me to "pick my battles", don't fight about the small stuff.