7 going on 27?

United States
November 13, 2009 8:41pm CST
My seven year old daughter is my oldest out of three children. She for the most part takes care of her room, picks up after herself and does what a seven year should do. She does extremely will in school and her extra activities. When speaking with her you would think you were talking with someone in their twenties! Last year she followed the entire Presidential election. She is in 2nd grade but the teachers started giving her 3rd grade work. One day I was looking through her graded school work and what I saw amazed me. There was a note attached to the stack of papers from her teachers. The note read: Dear XXXX, Thank you for taking the time reviewing your incorrect answers. The 2nd grade teachers are bery proud of you. It is not necessary to return your papers to us with comments as to why and how you concluded your answers. If you would like to discuss them please come see one of the teachers. I looked at her comments and this what one read: Thank you for letting me know. This is how I understood the book and believe my answer is correct. Again we are all very proud of her but here is my situation: She never thinks she is wrong. Debates everything. This starts at 6:00 in the morning until bedtime. This child literally exhausts us mentally. Does anyone have any suggestions for my husband and I on trying to make her understand that it's okay to be wrong sometimes?
1 person likes this
2 responses
• United States
14 Nov 09
it all depends if she is right let her be but if she does get things wrong and you know for sure are wrong try giving her some quite difficult challenges dont give her help let her figure it out and if she solve it then talk to her about it. if she cant solve it tell her why she couldn't do it it could also just be a phase or something. if not she just likes it but make sure she doesnt go to far with questioning you this could turn bad later on
• Philippines
14 Nov 09
I think you have a gifted daughter.maybe she is bored with her lessons.I suggest you might want to take her to advance classes.also,buy her books that will stimulate,like encyclopedias and almanacs.you may also want to enroll her in a class for gifted children.you might also want to enroll her in extra-curricular activities that might interest her,like painting,swimming,or dancing lessons.