My neighbor...

Philippines
November 16, 2009 12:04am CST
what will you do if you have a neighbor who seemed to know every breath of her neighbor and has a very comments in everything that she sees? who seemed to be a good story teller and a very thorough at that with plus and minus? what will you do to her if she tell every life's story of her neighbor to an eager listener? What will you do to her if she harass a kid just to extract information she wants to hear? Do you have neighbor like that? what will you do to her?
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@sid556 (30953)
• United States
24 Nov 09
I'd avoid her like the plague. I would not listen to her stories and I would not tell her anything. I would warn my kids not to talk to her about anything to do with our personal lives. If I saw her confronting my child then I would say something to her.
@sid556 (30953)
• United States
25 Nov 09
She just doesn't sound like the type of person I'd want for my friend or to have anything to do with her. If I heard her talking about other people...that would be enough for me. I would not care if she was lying or telling the truth...it just wouldn't matter. she has her nose in other peoples business and I just avoid those types of people.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 10
you are correct there sid.. thanks, thanks for the reply. take care...
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
yeah that's what i did. i didn't talk to her anymore. i didn't but at her store anymore. i never even look at her. one time she was confronted by my other neighbor about the things she said. My God, she denied, telling that she haven't said anything, though witnesses mentioned her. when will she realize that things she said are more destroying people then creating friendship? to the sake of forgiveness, would you still forgive her if you have the same case?
• China
16 Nov 09
Hahaha,that's very intersting,If I have neighber like that,I think I will go out of mind,I will move away......
@agv0419 (3021)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
We have that kind of neighbor they always update in what's happening in our neighborhood. Sometimes they always spreading the gossip to everyone. As long as they don't talk about our life we don't mind them. They afraid to my mother that's why they don't dare to spread gossip about our personal life. Before my Mother involved in the fight of our neighbors back in our rented house before. Because of the gossip they accused her that she is the one who spreading the gossip and ruined their life. Which in fact they she never mingle with them and she don't know what that gossip is all about.
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
but the thing is she talks, and she talks a lot, with excess and all. she even blow below your belt, (i mean mention a lot of things about you which are so personal and worth not mentioning but she mention anyway). she shouts, she gossip and she creates. would you still smile at her when your path cross since your house is facing the other? would you not feel back and tell her about it? probably to teach her lessons? what do you think?
@laglen (19759)
• United States
16 Nov 09
Close my blinds and never speak to her.
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
probably. but what if your closing your blind will be her reason of gossip?
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
If I have a neighbor like this, i will report her to the authorities in our neighborhood because that is invading other people's privacy. This kind of neighbor is pretty annoying and she should not be allowed to stay in the area.Everybody in the area has the right to his own privacy and it is against the human rights to do that. I had confronted a neighbor before and I was so angry and have mouth straight to her face and she never do that again to me.
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
i think, i'll take that advise. thanks..