How would you deal with someone who hates you,refuses to talk with you?

@shona264 (167)
India
November 16, 2009 8:27am CST
How would you deal with someone who hates you,refuses to talk about you,or reconsider?
6 responses
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
16 Nov 09
I wouldnt deal wiht them...They would become a non-issue for me..I have no time for ppl who are grudge holders or arent willing to try and be mature and work things out (assuming the person was once a friend). I also certainly have no time for ppl who would hate me because its most likely for something stupid and at my age elementary sandbox nonsense isnt something I'm up for..
@shona264 (167)
• India
17 Nov 09
What if you have some work with him/her and you don't have any other option than talking to him/her,how would you deal with him/her?
@hgwyneth (120)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
If you were hurt by someone who is dear to you, your tendency is to move away from that person. But as the days passed, you'll realize heartache is no longer there. Perhaps, this is what that person is going through right now. Just give him/her time. Respect what he/she wanted, then hope and pray, everything will be fine for both of you again.
@jugsjugs (12967)
16 Nov 09
The way i would cope with this is to think there are more friends that you have so just to do the same to them as they do to you.
@hvedra (1619)
16 Nov 09
If I'm not stuck with them e.g. someone I have to work with, then I wouldn't deal with them at all. Why waste time on someone like that when there are plenty more poeple worth of your time?
@anuramn (240)
• India
17 Nov 09
If the person who refuses to talk with me and hates me is good at heart, I'll try to speak with him/her and find out why he/she behaves in such a manner to me. If a bully, I would just leave it that way and start to do my work. How do you react Shona?
• United States
17 Nov 09
Attempt to move on and forget.