what is your attitude towards virgin or not virgin?

China
November 18, 2009 12:02am CST
if your girl friend is not a virgin, do you mind that? the boys can tell your true feelings about it here. girls can discuss, virgin is important or not ? have you any troubles because of this in your relationship?
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6 responses
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
18 Nov 09
hi hynnzheng!..well, it depends, if i really deeply love this girl, it hurts if she's not a virgin but i love her thats all it matter..
• China
18 Nov 09
you mean that you love her but still mind that she is not a virgin? can i understand in that way?
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
18 Nov 09
No i dont mind...Coz its her past and why should i mind wth past...Many people thinks tht if gf is not virgin means she is bad or etc...But its not true...If you love your gf truly then this will never matter...
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
Virginity is a choice but I think it doesn't matter as long as you really love your girlfriend or boyfriend.
• United States
18 Nov 09
Does it matter? Honestly, I think if two people really love each other, and they want to be together, then who they slept with prior, should not matter. These days, virginity doesn't really matter all that much. You, and the person that you are with, can both be virgins, and have nothing in common, not love each other, and have just no passion for each other. What kind of relationship would that be? Men always think that it is so great to have a woman who is a virgin, and then fail to realize that he has nothing in common with her, he doesn't care for her, he doesn't love her, and he isn't physically or emotionally attracted to her. Is virginity going to matter if you have no feelings for that person?
@mohitseth (568)
• India
18 Nov 09
ya if you love somebody you must forgive her or his each and every mistake and if your love is really true it does not matter whether your partner is virgin or not. happy mylotting.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
18 Nov 09
I don't really care for it. Virgin or not, it doesn't matter to me but I wouldn't want to date anyone who has been sleeping around like there's no tomorrow.
@BrittneeD (351)
• United States
18 Nov 09
well when me and my boyfriend got together 2 years ago I was not a virgin and he was he did have some problems with it but not so bad abviously we are still together and engaged.