Are You Bothered About "PEOPLE" ?
By priyavivek
@priyavivek (681)
India
November 18, 2009 3:33am CST
Hi friends ,
i am really interested to know how much you are bothered about the society and people around you. I really have some fear about what the society will think like that. I want to know how much you people are bothered about the society and what "others" think about you. Others can be your spouse , family , neighbours , relatives etc.
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6 responses
@velocity_186 (879)
• India
18 Nov 09
ya we have to bother ourselves coz
we live in a society where every one stays in some boundaries
people need something to gossip and make fun of others , am not saying every1
but there are people who do so
we need to careful before we do anything .
we need to maintain our reputation if we need to live life happily in any society
@priyavivek (681)
• India
19 Nov 09
thank you friend for your response. You are right we should not look back and think about others when we take important decisions of our life
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
2 Mar 10
I am not a people person and I rather be alone than share my life with people. I would love to live on a desert island away from everyone, I enjoy privacy, independence and the peace, it is very rare to get peace, people are noisy, intrusive, let you down, use you and criticize and complain. I get frustrated at society and the way people judge me. I want to live the life I deserve to live without trouble and without other people trying to run or control my life for me.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
18 Nov 09
Hi there!
You see we live in a well defined society and we are supposed to follow the norms of our society. We should restrain ourselves from indulging in those activities which are termed as anti-social. We just cannot say that we'll keep doing such activities which please us because we cannot bother about people living in the society and we just also cannot keep mum and silent and stop doing any kind of activity because we feel apprehensive about society's reactions. We need to take a balanced view.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
18 Nov 09
Hi..I try to do not bothered people around me but maybe bothered my husband,yes.LOL.I am type helpless person.So,what I can do by own,just I do it.I think,there is no people who want bothered others.Maybe they really need help or they does not aware that they could bothered others or depend their affairs on people arround them.
@deepamoorthy (239)
• India
18 Nov 09
hi priya when i was small i never bothered about any such thing .after my marriage i gave bit importance to it.a bit importance only i will not allow them spoil my interest .i know a lot of people have spoiled their life because of these things .for eg going for a job u know in our community they don't allow girls to go to job.they r many eg to be told .such things should not affect our day to day life.





