solving the problem

Shri Riyan has put it correctly. Since I too have teenage children, with experience I am telling this. Now-a-days children do not like advices. Take him to confidence. Make him know that you are his well wisher and you understand his position. Then see his mood and slowly raise the topic. Tell, 'why not you do this way or that way? Do'nt you think that this is better for you?' As per the problem you put forth facts before him. Tell him after all the life and future is his. Parents are not permanent. He is the person who is going to face the situation in future. Select your words and talk in a calm voice. Do not shout and show anger. Your voice modulation is very very important here. He should think that you are his friend, well wisher and his mind should open it's antena to receive signal from your voice. Try friend. First keep the problem in the feet of Lord then proceed. God will be with you, in your voice and in your words. BEST OF LUCK.

hi yuga, i think asking for advice from us here in mylot requires no obligation at all. no force..but you are already imposing a rule before we can do so. learning Telugu is already too far i still don't understand what your problem is so it's better to post in a friendly way as reeyan said above...before we can start to give our own thoughts about the problem.

Let him know that you care for him and would do anything for him. Become a close friend of him Be consistent. Rebellion is part of growing up; if it's not too serious, let it happen. Don't be too quick to bale him out of trouble. He has to learn to take responsibility for their own actions.