Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?

Love at first sight - THIS is the photo of the love at first sight
India
November 19, 2009 6:02am CST
Hi friends,Do you believe in love at first sight? in most of the movies we see that hero and heroine will fall in love at their first sight. Do you ever think that love at first sight can be possible? I don't believe in that. mine is love marriage only. But before marriage we were good friends and after getting good terms we plan to get married. What is your idea about love at first sight friends.
4 responses
• India
19 Nov 09
No acctually i don't. And i don't think that two people can have 'love at first sight". Love is a complicated thing. If you love someone truely you can't live without her. You wake up in the middle of night and start crying with no reason wahtsoever. So think it this way...... You see someone and it the so called "love at first sight" and with some reason you are not able to talk and loose her... just lost.... your life won't stop....What you would have seen and liked was just a beautiful body and one can't love a body. Love happen to the inner person nai the outer body.... you'll think about her till haven't seen a better body... And as i said that love happens with inner person not the outer body.... how is "love at first sight " possible cause at first sight you just see the person. To truely love her you should know her...
• India
19 Nov 09
that is really deep brother.
• India
19 Nov 09
thank yo harshrosicky for your response.
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• Philippines
19 Nov 09
I DO NOT BELIEVE in love at first sight BUT I BELIEVE in attraction at first sight. As what Gerard Butler said in his movie The Ugly Truth, "When you step in the bar we don't fall in love with your personality. We don't fall in love with your passion for things. We fall in love [attracted] with you boobs."
• India
19 Nov 09
thank you amijor for your response
• United States
22 Nov 09
I didn't believe in love at first sight a few years ago. Then I met a woman. She was asking me for some small assistance. She shook my hand. She looked me in the eyes the entire time she talked to me. She held her head high even though she was experiencing a rough time in her life. She is strong and proud and determined and willful. Now I believe in love at first sight. People are constantly revealing parts of themselves. Sometimes it takes years to learn who someone really is. Sometimes it takes an instant. I know a man who once told me, "I want to learn." The determination he showed and the desire to be better than the very best at his job, it made me fall in love with him in that instant. I knew him before then, had seen him before then. Was that love at first sight? I say it was. In one instant I did not love him, I barely knew him. In the very next instant I did love him. It was literally an instantaneous decision, and now I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. Sometimes - if not most of the time - love develops over time. But sometimes it hits you like an atom bomb.
• Canada
29 Dec 09
I also do not believe in love at first sight, when i met my boyfriend, even tho i love him now, there was no love at first sight, we met, he asked me out, and i was attracted to him the moment i opened my apartment door. So i believe there is attraction at first sight, not love, you can not love someone by looking at them, you know nothing about who they are, and what they stand for, that is something that is learned over time. My boyfriend and I are still learning things about each other, and everyday is a new adventure of what we learn, and everyday we grow to love each other a little bit more, it was attraction that drew us to each other, and it is love that will keep us together.