strong persona!

Philippines
November 19, 2009 7:37am CST
I'm a very responsible young lady.. in my age i already have a stable job with enough compensation.. My problem is,I'm successful in this field but I'm not successful when it comes in dating with men.. Men finds me domineering and some of them are intimidated by me?..Should i worry about this or what should i do for them not to feel that that way?..
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@ravend (659)
• Malta
19 Nov 09
You should do N.O.T.H.I.N.G. It has often happened to me in the past that a man I was dating got intimated by my high level of education, by my money, or by my 'being very busy'. I let them go. A lot of men hate it that women are dominating, and run away. But don't act otherwise. If you pretend to be something you are not; in your case a weak woman, you would be lying to yourself and to those men. Some day, your true self will come out, and they will leave anyway. Just be yourself. Mr. Right will come along and appreciate you for what you truly are, and not try to be dominating. :)) Keep going, and never try to change the person who you truly are. Happy MyLotting.
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
thanks to you..I'm actually telling that to myself that I'm gonna find someday who really deserves me..who will not be intimidated and will take me as a challenge for him to prove that he can counter my domineering personality..
@ravend (659)
• Malta
19 Nov 09
It is ok! It is a problem that a lot of modern women are facing. :). I spent a lot of time alone because I was not ready to be dominated. You are still young. Enjoy being single, enjoy your friendships, and do not hurry to find a man! There is no rush. :)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
yeah,you are right..men these days are having a hard time accepting the reality that some of girls right now were actually excelling in their fields..that were doing better than them..they cant just take the fact..
• United States
23 Nov 09
well i think you should look at the pictures above of the girl in pink and get some tips. she will probably show you how to get men! I don't think she's nice. she looks odd. i don't like her! but maybe you will! this girl i speak of is dressed in pink. and she is odd, because she is dumb to think. she is outcast and special and full of light, and if you look at the pictures, you might be like yaya! Well it's good that a man is intimidated by you. It probably means that you have manly muscles and that he thinks you are one unconsciously and will go away. but not really! i was just kidding. you should intimidate more men! men deserve to be intimidated. don't worry. that will make you feel better! don't worry! haha! just love them. really love them. but i don't know how to love, wait yes i do! hate his girlfriend then you will love better. or hate your oppressor then you will love better. well if you can't date men go to a bar.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
22 Nov 09
Hi, kimmie. Don't change because of a man that can't handle what you bring to the table. Continue to be yourself. The right man will come along and he will love you for who you are and not how much money you make. Any man that can't handle what you bring to the table is not worthy of your love nor your friendship..
• Philippines
22 Nov 09
worry?what do you have to worry?I think you should just be happy.be grateful you have stable job and isn't worrying about money.who care if men are intimidated?let them be.just live your life the way you want it to be,even if you don't have a bf.in fact,if I were you,I would probably be spoiling myself rotten.I would have been shopping,traveling,or doing things that make me happy.