Chatmate offered Marriage?
By happynin
@happynin (87)
United States
November 19, 2009 8:51pm CST
what do you do if your chatmate offered marriage? that you never see in person,? only in chatroom and web cam? do you think both parties are telling the truth or they both lie? would you accept the offer?
3 responses
@carla_roa (128)
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
falling in love with a guy from the chatroom is possible. But I still have to agree with the previous comments. Its very easy to lie when both of you are just chatting. A lot of people fell in love by some person they met online. But I still don't think you should marry a guy you haven't met yet. If he really is serious about you, he would fly thousands of miles just to meet you and let him see you what kind of person he really is then you can decide if you really want to marry him.
@happynin (87)
• United States
26 Nov 09
i met my husband at yahoo chatroom, was'nt all about getting married or anything, i dont know it just happen, we chat like about a month then after a month he came to visit me send 2 weeks to get to know each other then after 2 more weeks we got married, its looks sudden but honestly its like i known him long time ago, we are very compatible and comfortable with each other..
we actually just celebrated our 3rd wedding anniversary and still going strong, so inlove and happy..
@theonehush (959)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
based on my own experience, i cant even tell if someone is telling the truth or not.. but we see each other and were together for a long time.. so how can you trust one person if you havent known that person and only if you knew that person through chatting and webcam. i think you should personally meet and get to know each other before getting married. who knows maybe your not meant for each other and when you realize that it would have been too late coz ur already married.. :)
@happynin (87)
• United States
25 Dec 09
thanks for the response, but me and my husband felt like we where meant to be. we met online too as chatmate, we did'nt waste no time and get married. we felt good chemistry online, good things are blessed, but we both honestly dont lie when we met on chatroom. luck i my say..
@thuynhu (661)
• United States
20 Nov 09
Honestly I don't think I could accept the offer. It seems really odd to ask someone's hand in marriage when you've never met the person in real life. Things over the internet nowadays aren't always the greatest way to meet someone. It just real hard to be able to trust someone and what they say over the internet. It's a lot easier to lie over the internet not being able to see or actually hear the other person you never know what they may have been thinking. I'm just saying, it's a bit odd but to each his own.
