Is He For Real?

@bwanna (282)
United States
November 21, 2009 5:53pm CST
I have this "boyfriend" who wants to keep our relationship private. We go to the same high school and have been going out for about two weeks. Lately I've been hearing that he has a girlfriend at a different school, and I confronted him about it. He said that the two of them say that they're going out just to make other people think that their relationship could endure hardships, too (like long distance). He promised me that they were just friends, so I said okay. People keep on asking if we're going out, though, and a mutual friend of ours keeps on saying things to me, like "If he was interested in you he wouldn't be that comfortable around you". Do you guys think that he's faithful? For real?
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@erikmama (12929)
• United States
22 Nov 09
Run and run fast! It sounds like this guy is trying to play the both of you for whatever reason. I know you want to believe what he tells you, but why else would he want the relationship to remain private? Please do not let this boy do you this way! Boys will be boys...
@bwanna (282)
• United States
22 Nov 09
I was hoping that it wouldn't be like this, but it what you say just makes sense.
@erikmama (12929)
• United States
22 Nov 09
[b][/b]Sorry...I've been there before too, but it is better you are aware whats going on so you wont get hurt. I hope things work out good, and maybe you can find a boyfriend who can be just yours!
@dawnald (84199)
• Shingle Springs, California
4 Feb 10
Sounds to me like he's hiding things. He was hiding her from you. He's probably hiding you from her. He's hiding you from everybody. [i]Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive. [/i] Sounds like he's bad news...
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
probably not. kids nowadays just keep rushing into relationships for the heck of it.
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
22 Nov 09
I echo erikmama's comment. You should get out of that relationship and get away from that boy. He is poison! He will play you and he will break your heart in the process. Get away while your heart is still intact. Plus, forget the entire "other woman" thing - is there a reason this relationship is "private"? Are you hiding it from you're parents? Or he wants to keep it private? If he's the one who wants to keep it private - then he's definitely up to something that you're not gonna like. Good luck!