my star rating staying at "9", never goes up

Do you rate others? Do unto them as you would wish for them to so to you and who knows that one day you might move up

You still have a good rating, so don't worry about it. It will go up in time, but you need to do your part and rate other users if you want them to rate you. I rate all the users that respond to my discussions, and I also rate the ones I respond to. It helps us all that way, and it is only common courtesy to rate them especially if they have something to say. I know at one time the rating system wasn't that great for a long time, but it seems to be much better now. It is there for us to use, and we should all take advantage of it. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.

Why should anyone get hung up on ratings? If you got a 9 then you're doing good. I've got an 8 and it really doesn't matter if it was a 1. I don't use myLot much anyways.

hi colin if you wouldnt play games with us maybe all would be giving you more pluses. do unto others as you would have them do unto you and start rating everyone, mylot admins told me that if we all rate each other it would help all of us move up so start doing that and quit with the silly game playing. A guy is not a girl. that was unfair.Write quality not quantity discussions and do not hide your real identity, its not fair, nor nice either.

I'm in a similar situation - though I'm not as stressed out with it as you are. I mean, I would love to have a 10. But if it's not meant to be, 9 is not too bad. I hope your rating goes up someday, and if not, be satisfied with what you've got. It's better than 8, right?