Flirting 101

United States
November 22, 2009 9:36pm CST
I have never been a real big flirt. I am the shy and quiet type. I really like this one guy at work, but don't quite know how to flirt with him without seeming to desperarate or needy. I also don't want to seem like a hoe. Help please.
3 responses
@coldmoon (1088)
• France
23 Nov 09
There're three qualities that you have to forge yourself before starting a flirt : resistance, smartness, and venturesomeness. Then you'll forget all the worries and fears. Thinking that you have nothing and so there's nothing to lose. But think over before each action to not create crazy games. Good luck.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
23 Nov 09
Hi, nsep! the safest way to do is act as you are with a little twist.(grin) try to beautify your self, give some more extra effort in dressing, put some light make up, and a scent that catches his attention, perhaps his favourite scent for a woman.pretty sure his going to ask you to dine out but make sure you're going out with friends so that he wouldn't think you're dying to be with him and also to avoid the impression of being cheap. Just be safe!
• United States
23 Nov 09
The best thing to do would to act normal and act like a regular person. Get to know him and ask what he likes. Once you know try to invite him to to whatever he likes.